Yesterday the world lost one of it’s MAJOR spiritual teachers. And he just wasn’t one of the many great teachers who is roaming the planet, he is also THE person who caused me to have one of the BIGGEST breakthroughs in my life.
At the time I was 19 years old. it was a few years after my dad had passed and I still felt a huge void in my life after his death. And on top of this I was going through a major depression because my girlfriend of three years , the one and only girl I had ever dated dumped me.
At the time it felt like more than I could take. The pain I felt from being dumped was 100X worse than the pain I felt from losing my dad to cancer.
Everyone around me was telling me I’d be ok and that things would turn around and I’d find someone else. But at the time I didn’t want anyone else. And I didn’t want to feel all of the pain I was feeling in my heart.
Then, one day, while I was in a local bookstore, I looked down at the shelf. There was a book that caught my eye. For some reason, even with all of the other books on the shelf this one book stood out.
I picked it up and started reading it. And I couldn’t put it down. So, I decided to buy the book.
And this one book CHANGED MY LIFE.
It changed my life not because it had some earth shattering revelation. But because it made me realize something so simple. And it was this revelation which became the catalyst to make some major changes in my life.
The book was called, “The Sky’s The Limit” and the author was Wayne Dyer. At the time, I had no idea who Wayne Dyer was but reading his book I wanted to know more about him and his work.
The Breakthrough that I had after the reading the book wasn’t earth shattering. It wasn’t some ancient secret found in secret scrolls. And it wasn’t some complex formula that was hard to understand.
It was the realization that I had the POWER to decide how I want to look at things.
You see, Dyer made me realize that I didn’t have to be a victim in life. I had a choice in the way I could look at and deal with things.
And it’s a philosophy that I continue to use in my life today, almost thirty years since I first read that book.
So why and I sharing this with you and what does it have to do with your love life?
Well, if you’re like me (and most of the members of our GPS for Love community) you’re a seeker.
You’re always looking for answers. You’re trying to make things better
You’re trying to make sense of the past and you’re trying to figure out what you need to do differently to create the results you really want in your love life.
You’re looking for a BREAKTHROUGH. Right?
Well, I’m here to tell you that a BREAKTHROUGH doesn’t have to be some mystical event where the heavens open up and reveal some earth shattering secret that you’ve been missing.
More often than not a BREAKTHROUGH is a simple change in perception.
And when you finally have that BREAKTHROUGH that is when you are able to make the changes that will lead to the results you really want in your life, including creating an AMAZING relationship.
So, today I invite you to open up to the possibility of having the BREAKTHROUGH you’re looking for.
Instead of focusing how bad things are and how much you’re struggling, tell the Universe that you’re ready for a BREAKTHROUGH. And then keep your eyes and ears open, you’ll never know where it may show up.
Hope this helps!
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