The First Step Towards Healing a Broken Heart

Have you ever given your all to a guy only to have him rip out your heart and shred it into a thousand pieces? And while he’s moved on with his life you’re still trying to figure out what  happened. Right?

Having your heart broken sucks! But it doesn’t’ mean that it won’t heal. In fact, part of the healing process is understanding “WHY” your ex screwed you over.

Now the answer may not immediately take away the pain of the past but it is the first step towards moving on and healing your broken heart.

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Does this give you the clarity you’re seeking or is there something that you’re still struggling with? Please post your questions or comments below.

I’m here to help!

Much Love,


Do You Believe in Love?

Today I wanted to talk about something that may be preventing you from finding the love you are looking for….your Beliefs.

There is an old quote that says…”you’ll see it when you believe it”.

Well, I’ve come to learn that this phrase is 100% true believe in lovebut it’s only one part of the Love equation. Because you can believe love is possible but if your actions and your choices aren’t consistently in alignment with what it is you say you want, then it makes it almost impossible to have it.

For example. Let’s say you want a great guy and a rockin’ relationship (in and out of the bedroom), yet you don’t do anything. You don’t put yourself out there. You sit at home, say your prayers, put up vision boards and read all the blogs and books which tell you how to find love, but you don’t take any action to go out and actually meet men.

Well, I’m sorry to burst your bubble but it ain’t gonna happen.

The odds that the cable TV guy is going to ring your doorbell and be the man of your dreams is about as good as my chances of growing hair and getting on the cover of GQ.

And conversely if you want to find that special guy to share your life with and you keep jumping into relationships where you ignore the red flags (or make excuses for them) you may wind up in a relationship but it will be a Toilet Bowl relationship (the one that makes you feel like crap)

And lastly if you’re so afraid that you won’t find the love that you’re willing to take any guy who comes along you’ll wind up in a relationship where you’re doing all of the giving but you’re upset because you’re not “getting” your needs met.

You see, there is a simple formula for finding love…”Believe it….Think & Act Like it is going to happen…Achieve it.

Now I know this sounds so simple and right now you’re gong Joe this is such a bunch of BS, it’s so much more complicated than this.

And I agree. It appears so much more complicated. And that is because on some unconscious level you believe it is more complicated than it is.

So today I invite you to take some mirror time. I want you to look at your beliefs about Men, Dating, Relationships, Love & Marriage.

I invite you to spend some serious Mirror Time investigating if your beliefs are in alignment with what it is you say you want. I want you to explore and see if there may be an inner conflict between what it is you say you want and what it is you truly believe.

Because it is so much easier to find and attract love into your life when your beliefs are in direct alignment with what it is you say you desire.

After doing the Mirror Time exercise I invite you to share what you have discovered and how those beliefs may be working against you. You an share your observations in the comments section below.

And if you have any questions, comments or feedback, make sure to post those below as well. The GPS for Love Community is a safe place for you receive guidance and direction to help you create the relationship you desire…and deserve!


Much Love,


The Love Thermostat

Ever wondered why you keep getting the same results in your love life? Have you ever wondered why you’re attract to or keep attracting the same types of guys?

Well, it’s not your fault. It’s because your Love Thermostat has the wrong settings.

In this video you will not only learn what a Love Thermostat is, but you will learn how to recognize if your Love Thermostat has been set correctly

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At the end of the video is a special Mirror Time  exercise which will help you recognize if your Love Thermostat is set properly,

Take two mins to complete it and once you do In invite you to share your observations, questions and comments below in eh comments box.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


How To Know If You And A Guy Are Compatible – Part Two

In the last video you learned the 4 C’s of Compatibility:
Chemsitry, Connection, Communication & Common Morals, Values & Spiritual Beliefs

Well, there was one “C” I  left out. And the reason I left it out was because this “C”  is so big that it needed a separate video on its own.

Why? Because this “C” is the BIGGEST reasons most marriages fail.

If you want to build a relationship that is going to stand the test of time it is imperative that focus on the 5th C.

Watch below to Find out what the 5th “C” is…

After watching today’s vblog make sure to tell us what you think. Does this “C” matter? Share your thoughts & feelings. I’d love to hear from you.
Much Love,


The 4 C’s of Compatibility – How to Recognize if You and a Guy are a Good Match

When it comes to finding the right guy to share your life with it is essential that you focus on compatibility.

However, compatibility is a vague and somewhat confusing parameter to base your relationship on so in this video you will learn the 4 C’s of compatibility and how to recognize if a relationship is built to last.

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After You Watch today’s vblog make sure to take some Mirror Time to look at your past relationships (or the one you’re in now) and see which of the 4 C’s were/are missing.

And then go to the comments section below and share what you have learned so that someone else in the GPS for Love community may benefit from your sharing.

If you have any other questions, comments or feedback make sure to post them too!
Much Love,

If You Want a Relationship To Last…Look For This First!

Do you have a history of relationships which start out HOT but which quickly burn out?

Do you find yourself attracted to guys who ultimately let you down or disappear?

Is CHEMISTRY one of the biggest things you look for in a guy?

If so, you MUST watch this video because you will learn that there is something more important then chemistry that you should be be looking for first.

If you want a relationship that is going to stand the test of time then it is vital that you look for this other thing first.

To learn what it is….

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After you watch the video make sure to take some Mirror Time to see what changes you can make.

Don’t forget to share what those changes are. And if you have any other questions, observations or feedback make sure to post em as well!

Hope this helps!
Much Love,



Do You Have a Hard Time Being Vulnerable?

Have you had your heart broken? Is the pain of the past so strong that you’re having a hard time opening yourself up again?

Have you been burned so many times that you have put up an emotional wall that even superman couldn’t get through?

We’ve all been there? But closing yourself off may protect you and keep you safe but it will never lead to the love you’re desperately craving.

In this video you will learn how to overcome the pain of the past and you’ll also learn how to be vulnerable in a healthy way so that you will protect yourself AND allow space for the right guy to earn your heart.

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Make sure you watch til the end because there is a lil Mirror Time exercise which will help learn how to be vulnerable in a healthy and smart way.

Don’t forget to share what you have learned in the comments section below so that someone else in the GPS for Love community may benefit from your sharing.

And if you have any other questions, comments or feedback, feel free to post them to…I read every single one!

Have an amazing weekend!

Much Love,


P.S. If you’re having a hard time letting go of the past and you’re having a hard time opening yourself up after having your heartbroken I invite you to check out the GPS for Love mentoring program. For more info Click Here

Is It OK For A Guy To Look At Other Women?

If you were on a date with your boyfriend or husband and you saw him looking at another woman what would be your reaction?

Would you brush it off? Would you ignore it and pretend you didn’t see it? Would you get angry and confront him? or would you get upset and start feeling insecure?

In this video you will not only learn ow to recognize when a guy is being disrespectful to you but you’ll also learn how to recognize when a guy checking out another woman has nothing to do with him and everything to do with you and your stuff.

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I know this can be a very controversial topic and no matter which side of the fence you’re on you’ll have an opinion. So, after watching today’s blog I’d love for you to share it with us below in the comments section..

Much Love,,


Do you have a history of making poor choices in your love life?


It’s Joe. Happy Monday! I wish I could say the week is starting off on a great note but as I’m writing this this morning my head feels like ti’s in a vice and I’ve got all kinds of colored creatures coming out of my nose.

Oh well, just another speed bump on the road to life.

Speaking of the road to life today I want to talk about something that you may be doing which is working against you in your life, specifically your love life. Wanna know what it is?

It’s your….CHOICES!

You see if you say you want a great guy and an awesome relationship you have to stop trying to build a relationship with the “BOYS!”

Do You Choose to Make These Excuses?
Now I know what you’re gonna tell me….

the chemistry with the boys is AMAZING!”

“It’s the best sex you’ve ever had”

“They’re so much more fun!”

“He wasn’t like that in the beginning”

” I know that if I just love him I can help him overcome the pain of his past”

If I can just help him see that I am different than his previous wife (or wives), he’ll overcome how he got screwed and open up to me”

And this is just the conscious stuff that you’re aware of. I haven’t even mentioned all of the unconscious stuff which makes you pick these guys in the first place

Thing such as

you being afraid you’ll never find anyone else or anyone better

—your fear of being alone and never finding the love you really want (So you continue to choose guys where you settle)

–being afraid of getting hurt again so you continue to focus on your pain instead of learning how to get over it and learning how to make sure you pick the RIGHT guy for the RIGHT reasons
—defining your self worth by how “HOT” the guy is and how great the chemistry is

Being so hungry for that special someone to share your life with LOVE because you didn’t get the love, acceptance & support you were really looking for as a child

Now before we go further let me say one thing. If any of these statements resonate with you simply realize this….”there ain’t nothing wrong with you!”

You’re Not Broken, You Don’t need to be Fixed…You’re HUMAN!
You’re simply a human being on a journey. You’re not broken, you don’t need to be fixed and you don’t need years of therapy to overcome your past.

You simply need to learn how to do things better AND you need to understand WHY you make the poor choices in the first place.

And that is where the real problem lies. Because you don’t know how to do that AND there is a part of you that is Afraid of what it is gong to take to learn how to do that.

You see, no matter how strange it may sound there is a part of you that is “Wired” to keep this insanity going.

Just like a boat that is programmed to go south.You are programmed to do what you have been doing.

How do I know?

Because if you look at your relationship history you will see a pattern.

What is Your Pattern?
Maybe that pattern is

1) You pick guys who are emotionally unavailable

2) You pick guys who are a great package on the outside but who are an empty on the inside

3) You have sex and jump into relationships before you even know who a guy really is

4) You do everything to make a guy happy and make a relationship work…often at the expense of your won happiness and well-being

5) You ignore (or make excuses) for the red flags because you don’t want to see em or accept em

You see anytime you have a pattern in your life it is the Universe’s way of trying to get your attention. So instead of facing the TRUTH, dealing with it and eliminating it you continue to keep doing what you have been doing

And then you read blogs, watch videos, search the internet and maybe even buy some books or other programs hoping you’ll find the answers you’re looking for

But there’s a problem with all of this. You’re focusing on the SYMPTOM of your problem instead of the CAUSE.

You see you can keep trying this “pattern” but you’ll never get to the REAL cause of your problems….The REASONS why you continue to struggle in your love life. The reasons why you continue to make choice and decisions which don’t lead to the love you really want…and deserve!

Are You Asking the Right Questions?
Tony Robbins, One of my mentors once told me…”if you want better answers you must ask better questions”

Instead of asking “How can I meet a good man?” ask “Why do I keep attracting the boys(or being attracted to the boys)?”

Instead of asking “where do I go to meet a guy?” ask “Why am I only not finding/attracting quality men?”

Instead of asking “Why am I still single?” ask ” “What do I still need to learn to create the relationship I really want?”

Instead of asking “Why did he do this to me?” ask “What role did I play in allowing this to happen?”

You see better questions lead to better answers because the answers you’re looking for are at a much deeper level.

But the problem is your so close to your own stuff and you’re so emotionally involved you can’t see it. And sometimes when there’s so much emotional juice involved there’s a part of you that doesn’t want to see it.

It’s what I call the Blind Spots

And that is where the real problem lies.

I know because for almost three years I couldn’t see my blind spot. Well, let me be honest. I knew it was there but part of me didn’t want to see it. But the truth is the blind spots were there from the very beginning. I just didn’t want to see them. SO ignored them (and made excuses for them) until I got to the point where I was in so much emotional pain that I decided to do some things differently,

I decided to face the things I was running from. So why am I telling you this today?

Because I understand where you are. I get what it is like to pour your heart and soul into a relationship. I get what is like to live your life “hoping” that one day things will all work out. And I get what it is like to think that you have no control over the process. That it is ALL in God’s hands.

But it’s not. It’s in your hands too! You have the ability to create the relationship you really want. To create the relationship that you know you deserve.

No matter what your past has been like. No matter how you’ve been screwed over. No matter how much your self esteem has taken a hit, you can turn it all around

And I understand that right now you’re saying to yourself “HOW?”

How to I overcome the past and how do I learn overcome my blind spots so I can have the relationship I really want?

And that’s a much better question!

The Importance of the Right Mentor
And the answer is by finding someone who knows how to recognize the blind spots. By finding someone who knows how to overcome the exact challenges you are going thru and by finding someone who is currently in a successful relationship and who knows what it takes to make it happen.
[NOTE: you wouldn't take financial advice from a homeless guy so why would you take advice on your love life from someone who doesn't have a successful track record.]
You see the Universe is there to guide you. And like a giant GPS system it will keep guiding you no matter how many wrong turns you make.

But why keep making more wrong turns than you need to?

The journey is and can be much easier when you learn to recognize that the GPS system is there to guide and support you. (Do you think you’re reading this by coincidence?).

But the Universe allows you to have free will. it allows you to make your own choices.It will guide you to go right but if you choose to go left because the chemistry is amazing,
you’re afraid you’ll never find the love you really want or you’re afraid of being alone. it’s not on the Universe…it’s on YOU!

So the first step to creating a rockin’ relationship is to realize that you always have a choice. And the result of that choice will take you one step closer to your destination
or one step further away.

You have a choice. You can continue to ignore the blind spots in your love life or you can learn to recognize them and overcome them.

The CHOICE is yours!!!!

And if you are at the point of journey where you’re tired of struggling and you’re afraid you won’t be able to do it on your own I’d love to help you.

In fact, I have created a specific program that is designed to help you identify and eliminate your blind spots. And the best part of this program is it doesn’t’ take years of therapy to “fix” you.

In two days I’m going to be releasing 5 new spots in the GPS for Love Mentoring program.

And because your a member of the GPS for Love community I wanted to give you first dibs.
go here for info==>

I want you to know that you’re not alone on this journey and you don’t have to continue to struggle and figure it out on your own.
I’d love the opportunity to work with you and show you how to make it happen. In way that would be much easier and much quicker than continuing to do it on your own

If you’re serious about creating the results you really want in your love life and you’re tired of wasting your time and energy on things which don’t lead to the RESULTS you’re
looking for check it this program and let the Universal GPS show you if it’s what you need.

Much Love,


If you have any specific questions about the GPS for Love Mentoring program please feel free to send them to me at

The First Step To Finding Love That Lasts

Do you have a history of having your heart broken. Do you tend to give your all but always wind up frustrated, sad and ALONE?

Do you think that if you have sex, do everything you can to make him happy that he will fall in love and do the same for you?

If so, you MUST watch this video because you will learn the first step you must take to find the love you really want

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After watching today’s vblog I invite you to share any questions, comments or feedback you may have.
The GPS for Love Community is a safe place to give and receive guidance in navigating the road to love
Much Love,