it’s Joe. Yesterday was a really special day. It was my wedding anniversary.
On Nov 9th, 2001 Natalie and I began a journey as husband and wife and if you would have told me on that day that in fourteen years I would have left my chiropractic career to help others find love I would have laughed in your face.
But that’s one of the cool things about life. Sometimes the Universe takes you to places that you can’t even imagine.
I’m sharing this with yo not to brag but to help you understand what makes me commit my life to one woman.
You see there’s this myth out there that men can’t commit, they can’t be faithful and all they care about is getting laid.
Well, I’m here to tell you it’s bullsh*t!
Yes, sex is an important part of a healthy relationship but there’s so much more that will make a man want to commit a woman.
If you ever met my wife Natalie you would think she’s attractive and she’s a nice person. But you probably wouldn’t see the things that I see.
When I first met Natalie I thought she was “ok”. She seemed like a nice girl and we seemed to get along well, but initially there were no indications that this was the woman that I would want to spend the rest of my life with.
But the more I got to know here and spend time with her the more I began to realzie that she was “The One.” for me.
And it’s still like that after all these years.
What makes me want to stay in a relationship with her is …HER!
She’s a beautiful person (inside and out). She loves me for me and she’s never tried to change me or make me into who she things I should be.
And because she loves me the way she does it makes me want to love her even more.
When I met Natalie she didn’t pretend to be someone she isn’t. She didn’t say or do things to trick me or manipulate me into loving her.
From day one she showed me her true colors and because her true colors were exactly what I was looking for I knew I couldn’t let her get away.
I constantly hear from the members of our community. “how do I get a guy to fall in love with me?”, what do I do to get a guy to commit to me?”
And I have to laugh?
Because the only thing you have to do is to be yourself. And any guy who cant love you for you simply isn’t the right guy for you.
So anytime you think guys are afraid of commitment or are only interested in one thing I want you to use me as an example. I want you to know that us “MEN” will commit to you when you show us from the beginning that our lives will be better and we’ll be happier with you in it.
When I was single my friends and family members used to tell me…”There’s someone out there for everyone.’ And quite honestly it used to piss me off.
But I gotta admit they were right. If you would have told me that I hit the jackpot when finding the perfect person for me I wouldn’t have believed it.
And it’s why I created GPS for Love and I’m sharing this with you today.
Because I believe there is some special guy out there who would love to share his life with an amazing women like you.
and it’s ok if right now you have hard time believing it. I understand. Natalie & I were once in your shoes.
I am 100% confident that if you put yourself out there and show up as the best you from date #1 the right guy will one day come along and realize that he can’t let you go.
Your job is to be that woman. To put yourself out there and to let the Universe take care of the details on how you’ll meet.
Hope this helps!
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