Have you ever dated a guy who disrespected you? If so, you’re not alone.
In fact, there is not a day that goes by where I don’t hear from a member of the GPS for Love community who is upset about a guy who “Did__________”
The majority of the time the reason why the woman is upset is because the guy did something to respect her.
Well, I’ve got a newsflash for you….There are some guys roaming the earth that have no respect women, even you.
Now I know how upsetting that may be. But it really shouldn’t be.
At this time in your life it shouldn’t take an epiphany to realize that there are some guys (ok, lots of em) who don’t respect women. This isn’t bad news. It’s good news. You need to use this information to your advantage.
You see, a guy can only continue to disrespect you if you allow him to. If you continue to rationalize, justify and make excuses for a guy’s disrespectful behavior, you are teaching him that it is OK to disrespect you. You are showing him that as long as he comes back and gives you some bullsh*t excuse for his behavior, you will continue to allow him to get away with being disrespectful.
That doesn’t fly! And if you continue to allow him to do so it’s not on him, it’s on you!
You want a guy to respect you? Respect yourself first!
Show a guy that you will no longer tolerate his selfish and disrespectful behavior.
You’re not going to change a disrespectful guy, and the truth is, he’ll probably just move on and find another “girl” who will allow him to get away with his disrespectful behavior.
When you show a guy that you will not tolerate or accept being disrespected, you are sending out a clear message to the Universe. You are letting the Universe know that you are not willing to settle for crumbs.
The Energy that you will be emitting will be much more in alignment with the relationship you really want, and when that happens, it is much easier for the Universe to send you the whole “cake.”
Now this might be oversimplifying things a bit, but that’s just because when it comes to love, we humans tend to make things a lil more complicated than they need to be.
I believe God is sitting up in the Heavens pulling HIS/HER hair out saying…”NO, you re making it so much harder than it needs to be. This isn’t what I had in mind when I created things.”
When we are born we are given free will. A Guy is given a choice. He can decide to be a “boy” and disrespect women or he can decide to be a “man” and do the opposite.
But you also have a choice. You can choose to allow a guy to disrespect you or you can walk away the first time he does so.
I hope you pick option #2! Because that is what God really had in mind for you! 🙂