The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Your Relationship

 

One of the best things you can to to ensure you don’t waste your precious time in the wrong relationship with the wrong guy is to create clear boundaries.

In this video you’ll not only learn about the importance of having boundaries you’ll also learn three steps which will make it easier for you to create those boundaries and stick to them!

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7 thoughts on “The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Your Relationship

  1. Anna says:

    Wonderful video. I’ve lived almost all my live an abusive relationship with my mother, because I didn’t know how to set boundaries. All my life I’ve been very sick, had depression because of that but I didn’t know how to stop this abuse. This year I’ve got sick many times and after studying a lot I realized that relationship was destroying my health. But I needed an episode when I was sick and she didn’t care and forced me to go to a meeting SHE wanted me to go but I didn’t want to. So, it has been 3 months that I’ve set boundaries and she doesn’t force me to do anything anymore. I’m feeling much better emotionally and healthy. Hope this can help other people have the courage I did to change their lives.

    • Kristina says:

      Hi Anna, thank you for your hopeful message. You are courageous !
      I am in a similar situation with my mother. I would like to connect to some women with the abusive mothers to share the experience and support (I also search in youtube etc). If you would like to connect or know some support, feel free to contact me through this webpage.

    • Why do you have to talk to a man about your dealbreakers?

      I never talked to Natalie about mine. I just got know her and let her show me whether or not she had any of my deal breakers

  2. Crystal says:

    Hey Joe, I met a man that is a retired ER Dr but is now writing poetry. I met him on match.com but knew him so quickly because he writes from his mind, heart, and soul. I want to go all the way with him with him but don’t want him to see me as easy.

  3. Kristina says:

    Great video ! Thank you very much.
    It happened to me to have a guy in my space who tried to make me jealous of other women. I did not notice this behavior…..but the red flags were there from the beginning.
    1)Currently I am learning about this behavior – probably my new deal-breaker:
    triangulation, manufacture love-bond with me in order to make me suffer, making me compete for his affection with other women (making me jealous).
    2)I can hardly emotionally accept to be able in contact with this person, even though he would promise not to repeat this behavior.
    There is probably no way I can live with it.
    In my previous relationship, I used to tell him what my boundaries are, he did not cross it for some time, and then he did it cross it again. I told him again my boundary, I was serious, and then again, I pardoned him. I believed in his promises….I had hard time to stick to my boundaries. This guy was a big liar, manipulator ..it was not an accident that he violated my boundaries repeatedly.
    It caused me my health (and subsequently everything in my life).
    Too high price.
    I cannot even believe that it happened to me.
    3) It feels as a huge torture for me being made jealous and compete fro the affection, lots of anger, resentment, frustration, depression…I suffer.
    It hits the button: I am so glad to hear it, Joe.
    I am afraid to leave…I am afraid to lose the last guy (friend) in my life. I am afraid that I will never have any other man, friend in my life. No love (even when it is a friendship), companionship, support, no help.
    It is a big dark place for me, lots of fear.
    It makes so much sense to me that even that when I would have no more man in my life ever, I would still be happy, I would make my life.
    So far, since couple of moths this guy is giving me more pain, resentment…not happiness. It was similar at the beginning.
    I am going to have more pain when staying.
    I start to think of the days when I am out of this relationship and experience more happiness -my own, not needing to consume the harm others place on me.
    The price it to live without men. But maybe it is truly worth trying.
    Maybe I can make it.
    Big thing.

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