How To Get a Man To Want To Commit To You

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Ever wondered what it would take for a guy to commit the rest of his life to you and only you?

Want to know how to be the woman that causes the right guy to want to spend his life with you?

In this video you will learn the secret to getting a guy to want to commit.

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Do you have a hard time being yourself? Do you think you have to do something or be someone else in order fro a guy to fall in love with you?

Do you try too hard to impress a guy so that he’ll want to be with you?

Scroll down to the comments section and share your thoughts and feelings on today’s vblog and how it will help you in your love life

Much Love,

Joe

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The Quality of Your Love Life is Directly Due To This…

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Have you ever wondered why some women find love and others continue to struggle and go from one crappy, toilet bowl relationship to another?

Is it due to the love they received as a child? is it due to their looks? Or is it simply due to some divine entity in the sky which picks and chooses who finds love and who doesn’t?

In this video you will learn how the above factors may sometimes play a role in your ability to find love but there is ONE THING which greatly influences your ability to find the love you really want more than any other thing.

To find out what this ONE THING watch this video…NOW!

After watching the video I invite you to take some Mirror Time to  see how you’re doing with this “ONE THING” and make sure you post your observations, questions or feedback in the comments section below

Much Love,
Joe
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Are You Too Hard On Yourself?

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Are you your own worst critic? Do you find it easy to pick out your flaws but you have a hard time focusing on your assets?

Did you know that your ability to love & accept yourself is a great indicator of the success of your future relationships?

In this video you will learn how giving yourself permission to be human and accepting your imperfections is an important part of creating a GREAT relationship.

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Being able to love and accept yourself can be as easy as making a decision. Scroll down to the comments section and decide what action or step you must take to love and accept yourself RIGHT NOW…as you are.

Much Love,

Joe

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The Apology You Never Received…But Should Have!

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Below is a repost of one of my most popular blogs when I originally started this blog. It’s the apology letter your ex should have written you…but never did.

Hope it helps!

DEAR____________, 

I am writing to you today to ask for your forgiveness. I now understand how much I hurt you and how much pain I caused you. This is not easy for me to admit because doing so causes me pain. For it was never my intention to hurt you. I am not going to make excuses for my behavior. For one time I am going to step up to the plate and take responsibility for my actions.

I now see that pointing fingers and blaming you was the coward’s way out. I could have communicated like a man, but I took the easy way out, the path of least resistance. And although that path was easy for me, I now see how much it hurt and affected you. And for that I am truly sorry.

I also want to apologize for every time that I did not live up to and honor my commitment with you. I now see that every time I lied, every time I cheated, every time I put you down and blamed you I was doing what was best for me without taking into consideration how it was going to affect you. It was very selfish of me and I’m sorry. Instead of talking to you and communicating how I was feeling I ran away, like a little boy, too afraid to speak the truth.

You deserved to be treated with love and respect and I failed. I am no longer willing to be the victim and blame everyone and everything for my mistakes and shortcomings. I will no longer try to blame and make you wrong for things that were my fault. I now see that I and I alone was responsible for the emotional pain and devastation I have caused you.

But what bothers me the most is that my mistakes have caused you to put up walls and close yourself off to the world. My actions are depriving someone else of the opportunity to know what a beautiful and loving person that you are. The pain I have caused has scarred your heart so bad that you are no longer willing to open up and take the chance on love.

So I am asking you to please put down your walls. I do not deserve the ability and power to take that away from you. I am simply someone who has made some mistakes because I was dealing with my own shortcomings and faults. Unfortunately you became the victim of my problems.

Instead of being a man and dealing with my stuff, I ran from it and even worse, I projected it onto you.

If I could go back in time and erase the things I did which caused you pain, I would in a heartbeat. But I can’t. I can only sit here and do one thing, something I should have done a long time ago; say I was wrong and I am sorry.


In closing I want to say that I understand that you will probably never forget the hurt and pain I have caused you and those close to you. I don’t expect you to. But I hope you will find it in your heart to forgive me, not for me, but for you. For I now see and understand the ramifications of my choices and decisions.

I ask you to forgive me so you can free yourself form the shackles that have imprisoned your heart and kept you from experiencing the love you deserve.

I wish you nothing but life’s blessings.

Sincerely,

 ________________________(Insert Ex’s Name Here:)

I am sorry that you never received this apology and explanation when you deserved it. But now you have it. You are free to move on and leave the past where it deserves to be. The only question is will you?

Much Love,

Joe

 

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Three Biggest First Date Mistakes Women Make

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Have you ever had a first date where you thought everything went great but you never heard from him again. And you were left wondering if there was something you said or did which may have scared the guy away.

In this video you will learn the three biggest first mistakes a woman can make which will scare a guy away.

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Have you ever made any of these mistakes? Are there other mistakes you may have made on a first date which may have scared a guy away?  Do you have any questions about first date etiquette?

Make sure to post your questions, comments and feedback below.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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The Difference Between a Good Man and The Right Man

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One of the most complicated parts of dating is trying to figure out if a guy is worthy of committing your life to. There are so many guys who portray themselves to be something they’re not. And there are even more guys who say they are ready to commit to a relationship with you only to reveal that they’re not.

And this confuses and frustrates you, right?

Well, in today’s video you’ll learn a simple strategy which will help you recognize when a good man is worth committing your life to..and when he’s a just a nice guy who is better suited for someone else.

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Do you have a hard time recognizing the men from the boys? Not sure how to recognize Mr. right when he does come along?

Take a few seconds and scroll down to the comments section and share any questions, observations or feedback you have on today”s vblog

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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How To Recognize if a Guy is A Keeper

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Today I was supposed to be on a road trip up to Boston to see a baseball game at Fenway Park with my father-in-law and my boys.

My father-in-law is having a very hard time handling my mother-in-laws dementia and we thought it would be Is he a keepergreat to get him out of the house for a few days.

While we were away Natalie was going to take care of her mother but at the last minute Natalie developed a sever intestinal virus and we had to postpone the trip.

So why am I sharing this with you?

Because as soon as I saw Natalie wasn’t feeling well I knew what had to be done.

You see contrary to all the relationship experts life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows…even if you marry your soul mate.

There are often times where you have to put your desires and needs on the back burner so that you can be there for your spouse.

Is it always easy? Hell, no!

But doing the right thing often isn’t easy.

If you are going to have a successful relationship, one that is going to stand the test of time it is imperative that you pick a partner who CONSISTENTLY shows you that he can and will be there for you…not just in the good times when it is convenient. But in the bad times, especially when things are tough.

I’m gonna let you in on a lil secret, something that most men know, but very few will admit in public.

What makes a MAN feel like a MAN is when he knows he is taking care of his woman (and his family).

And if you are going to pick a guy to spend the rest of your life with (and have a family with) it is imperative that you choose someone who CONSISTENTLY shows you that he is going to be there for you and have your back, not just in the beginning of the relationship but ALWAYS!!!!

You see many guys put on a great show in the beginning. They pretend to be these magnanimous, loving creatures but then a short while later, they show their true colors.

And if you’re like a lot of women. You make excuses for these “boys”. You focus on how great they are, how great the chemistry is and how loving and kind he was when you first met and you keep hoping that he’s going to change and turn back into the guy you feel in love with.

You waste your precious time only to realize that you’ve been duped. You’ve given your heart to a “boy” who was pretending to be a man.

And you erroneously think if you just love him some more, give him some space and say your prayers that he’s gonna be the MAN you thought he was.

Ladies, I’m here to tell you that if a guy doesn’t CONSISTENTLY SHOW YOU FROM THE BEGINNING that he’s got his back and you can trust him to be there for you CONSISTENTLY there is only one thing you must do…..DUMP HIS ASS!!!!

Now I know it may not be what you want to hear and you’re going to justify it by saying there’s an exception for every rule.

But realize this. You can run across a highway without looking and you may be the exception which makes it across, but for everyone who makes it across….thousands get smashed!

Did today’s blog resonate with you? Do you tend to pick “boys” who initially pretend to be “MEN” only to find out the hard way that you’ve been misled? Are you currently in a relationship where a guy is showing you that he doesn’t CONSISTENTLY have your back but you’re afraid to let him go and move on.
Scroll down to the comments section of blog and share your thoughts and questions

Hope this helps!

Much Love,
Joe

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What To Do When Your Love Life Doesn’t Go Your Way

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Have you ever been in a relationship where you thought everything was great and then, suddenly, out of the blue the guy tells you that he can’t commit to you.

And you’re confused.

You know you must move on but part of you doesn’t want to because you’re hoping he’ll change his mind

If you’re currently experiencing this today’s video is a MUST because you will learn how to handle this experience

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Do you have a hard time letting go of a relationship? Do you try too hard to make a guy happy and a relationship work…often at the expense of your own happiness?
If so, scroll down to the comments section of today’s blog and let us know how today’s video can help you
All The Best!
Much Love,
Joe
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How To Attract A Great Guy

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Having trouble attracting a good man? Want to know the secret to getting a guy to notice you so that you stand out from all the other single women?

Most women think that there is a specific way to act or a specific way to dress to attract a guy.

Well, in this video you will learn that it’s not the way you dress or act that is the most important thing that makes a guy want to be with you.

Want to know what that certain intangible thing that a good man looks for in a woman that makes him decide that she’s the woman he wants to be with?

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After watching this video make sure you take some time to answer the question at the end of the video. it will give you some insight on how high (or low) you’re attraction factor is.

Scroll down the comments section and share you’re observations and any other questions or feedback you have.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

 

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Is It OK For A Guy To Look At Other Women?

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If you were with a guy and he looked at another women what would be your reaction?

C’mon be honest!

Would you get upset? Would you call him on it? Or would you just let it go and not think twice about it?

This is a very controversial and debatable topic and in this video you’ll learn the TRUTH about guys and why they look at other women.

You’ll also learn when it’s no big deal and when it’s a BIG RED FLAG indicating you’re with a  “boy”

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This is a very debatable and controversial subject, so I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Is it OK for a guy to look at other women? Take a few secs to scroll down to the comments section and share your feelings on today’s video.

Hop e this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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