A Guy’s Perspective on Women, Commitment & Relationships

Have you ever wished you had a guy who respected you enough to tell you the truth about men and what makes them decide if they’ll commit to you?

If so, I invite you to watch this video where you’ll learn  how to understand a guy’s perspective and what makes him decide if he wants to be in a relationship and commit his life to you.

Watch here…

Hope it helps!

Much Love,


The Difference Between LIKE and LOVE

Have you ever stayed in a relationship with someone you loved but who was consistently making you unhappy?

Well, I did and ultimately I learned that love doesn’t conquer all, especially when you don’t like the person you are in love with.

In this video you’ll learn that love is cool but if you don’t like the person you are in love with you will make it more difficult on yourself to have the type of relationship you really want…and deserve!

Watch here…

After you watch today’s vblog I invite you to take time to answer the following questions

Q) Is there a difference between LIKE and LOVE?
Q) If so, which is more important to YOU? And WHY?I invite you to share your answers on the blog.
Don’t forget to post your responses, questions and feedback below.

The GPS for Love Community is a safe place for you to share and receive the guidance to help you create the relationship you really want…and deserve

Much Love,


Having A Hard Time Letting Go?

Today I’d like to share something that happened to me this morning that immediately put me in a bad place.

As I was getting ready to start my day & I was gong thru my pre-flight boarding instructions (which is the term I use for the rituals I go thru to prepare for my day) I found out that someonethief had made a fraudulent copy of my debit card and was making charges at BJ’s, a wholesale membership club., which ironically, I don’t even have a membership for.

So imagine my surprise when I found out that the fraudulent card was used to purchase hundreds of dollars of merchandise… with my money.

Needless to say it wasn’t the best way to start off the day and it wasn’t in my plans. The boys had finished school yesterday & Natalie & I had planned a special day to kick off their summer vacation.

Instead of heading out for a day of fun I had to spend the morning on the phone trying to rectify and clean up the mess that was caused by the thieves

Unfortunately I had been thru this ten years ago & I knew what to do.

I know that everything will work out and eventually I will be reimbursed for the money that was debited from my account.

But until that happens there’s a lot of BS and crap that I have to go thru until it’s resolved.

And what initially set me off was that I knew I didn’t do anything to deserve it.

Kind of like you right?

Kind of like you right?

You may not be struggling with a stolen debit card. Instead your anger and frustration may be something else.

maybe it’s another guy who blew you off? or is it an “ex” who screwed you over? or how about the frustration of dating and having to deal with the “boys”

And because you know you’re a good person and none of it was according to your plan there’s a part of you that is having a hard time letting go.

Now I must admit that years ago an event like this may have ruined my day, my week and would’ve made me not want to trust others even more. What I ultimately learned is that the only person I hurt by focusing on I was screwed over…is me.

But I’ve since learned to look at this stuff as simply another speed bump on the road to life. And more importantly I have learned not to take it personally

Instead of getting pissed and focusing on how I got screwed I simply choose to see it for what it is…nothing more and nothing less.

I believe in the Law of Karma. I believe what comes around goes around.

I”ve learned that you can’t do stuff like this without experiencing the repercussions.

So instead of giving this person the POWER to ruin my day (my week or my life)  I decide to let it go and take my POWER back.

You see, no one has the right to steal your sunshine without your permission.And no matter what a person says or does you get to decide how you want to handle it.

If you continue to focus on how you’ve been betrayed, lied to or screwed over you give your POWER away and make the other person responsible for your happiness.

And that’s not OK!!!!

The only person who gets to dictate your happiness is…YOU!

So, today I invite you to take some Mirror Time. Take a good look at whatever you’re’ holding on to. Look at the energy you are giving away and see  if it’s working for you or against you.

And then ask yourself…”What good is holding on to this doing me? “In what way is it helping me in being happy and having the life/relationship I really want?”

And when you’re done make sure you post your observations, questions or comments below on today’s blog (I’ve already posted mine)

Remember The GPS for Love community is a safe to share, and to give and receive support and guidance with other like minded individuals who are committed to creating GREAT results in their love life.

Have an awesome day!

Much Love,

If you know someone who is having a hard time getting over something I invite you to forward this e-mail and share it with them. it may be just what they need.


How To End Loneliness

Are you having a hard time in your life because you’re feeling lonely? Do you wish you had more joy in your life and more people to share it with?

If so, watch this video because you will learn that there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely.

You’ll also learn a strategy for which will help you fill up that loneliness void until that great guy comes along

Watch here…

After you watch today’s vblog take some time to share what action you can take to help you overcome your loneliness.

Also feel free to post your questions, comments and feedback down below as well.

The Gps for Love community thrives when we are all sharing and supporting each other

Much Love,


The Difference Between Healthy & Unhealthy Chemistry

Do you tend to be attracted to guys who are all sizzle and no steak? Is Chemistry one of the first things you look for in a man?

If so, you MUST watch this video because b/c you will learn that there are two types of Chemistry and not knowing the difference may be the reason you continue to struggle in your love life


Watch here…

After you watch the video take some Mirror Time to see which chemistry you have been focusing on.

And make sure you share any questions, observations or comments below. The GPS for Love Community is a safe place for us all to share and support each other during the  pursuit of love and happiness.


Much Love,


Are You Focusing on the Problem or the Solution?

Do you want to have a happy and fulfilling relationship but you’re having a hard time believing it’s possible because of your past?

If so I invite you to watch this video because you’ll learn how a simple change in your FOCUS may be the catalyst to getting great results in your love life.

Watch here…

Make sure you take some Mirror Time after watching this to notice what you’ve been focusing on.

And then take some time to post your observations, questions or comments below.

The GPS for Love community continues to grow stronger because we’re all sharing and supporting each other

Much Love,



Are You Missing The Red Flags?

Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy only to find out months, years or decades later that he wasn’t who you thought he was?
if so, you MUST watch today’s video.

Debbie, on of our GPS for Love Community members shares how she asked all the right questions, yet she got screwed b/c she found out that the guy wasn’t being totally honest.

Imagine that..a guy who lies.

Yes, they’re out there, but as you’ll see in today’s video even though Debbie did all the right things there were things she could’ve done better.

I created this video, not only to help Debbie, but to help YOU so that you’ll never have to go thru the same thing that Debbie and I have gone though.

Yes, ladies. believe it or not guys aren’t the only ones who lie and misrepresent themselves.

Watch here…


Much Love,


PS, in the video I mention my special report called “The 5 Types of Emotionally Unavailable Men”. It’s a report that is designed to help you recognize the red flags of those guys who will never be able to give you the love you’re looking for…no matter how much you love them. If you haven’t seen it or are interested in having a copy click here==> http://gpsforlove.com/products/5-types-of-emotionally-unavailable-men/

When Should You Talk About Your Past?

Do you have some things from your past that you are embarrassed or ashamed of? Are you afraid that if you talk about your past that you’ll scare a guy away? Do you worry about knowing when you should talk about your past?

If so, I invite you to watch this video because you’ll understand when you should talk about your past and when you shouldn’t.

Watch here…

After you watch the video I’d love to hear your opinion. When do you think it’s ok to talk about your past?

And when should a guy reveal his past to you?

Post your comments, questions or feedback in the comment section of today’s blog

Much Love,

Do You Put Yourself Last?

Do you have a habit of putting yourself last in your relationships?

Do you tend to try too hard to make a man want to be with you or to make sure he stays with you?

But no matter how hard you try you find you’re still not getting the love, honor and respect you REALLY want?

If so, watch today’s vblog. I made it just for you!

Watch here…

And please make sure you share what you learn with the other members of our GPS for Love Community down below in the comments section of today’s blog. Because this community thrives when we are all sharing and supporting each other!

And if there are any other questions, comments or feedback you have feel free to post those as well.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

The Rules For Dating After Divorce

Ever wondered if there were any rules for dating after a breakup or a divorce?

Well, there aren’t but there are some guidelines which will help you navigate the complex world of men, dating and relationships.

Watch here to find out what they are…

If this video reonates with you and you’d like to learn how to master these three guidelines I invite you to check out the GPS for Love Dating After Divorce program. Click here or visit http://gpsforlove.com/datingafterdivorce/ for more info