Tired of Striking Out in Your Love Life?

Today is one of my favorite days of the year and it’s also a time to create a vblog which will help you understand how that the problems in your love life are really “clues” left by the Universe to help you learn what you need to learn to create the results you rally want in your love life.

If you’re willing to open your mind and heart to the possibility that your past didn’t happen to you…but for you, this vblog can be a game changer!

To see what I mean watch this…

As always the action happens below the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question on today’s blog and join the conversation.  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Much Love,
Joe

Do You Question Your Ability To Pick The Right Guy

When it comes to the guys you get involved with is your “picker” broken. If so, this blog is for you!

If you are going to have the kind of relationship is your picker brokenyou really want you must be able to pick the right guy for the right reasons.

And to do that you must be able to see beyond the “chemistry” and recognize the important qualities and characteristics which let you know that a guy is relationship ready AND he is well suited to be your partner. Continue reading

Do You Second Guess Yourself Too Much?

When it comes to your love life do you often find that you second guess yourself?

Has the pain of your past left such an impact on don't second guessyour heart that you’re afraid of giving your all because your afraid that you’re gonna get screwed again?

And as a result do you live in a constant state of analysis?

And if you’re like me, you’re so analytical that you often wind up analyzing your analysis. Right?

Well, Second guessing yourself and confronting your fears can often be a good thing…a very good thing. But when that analysis creates such fear that you prevent yourself form going all in and going for the GOLD that becomes a problem…a very BIG problem.

And I can relate because I’m in a period of my life where I’m going into uncharted territory. There is so much I want to do here at GPS for Love. There is such a desire for the “result” that I want to achieve, but with that desire comes a lot of fear.

And most of that fear comes down to one thing…being afraid that if I give it my all I’m not gonna succeed…again.

Because the truth is, I’ve failed A LOT! And every time I have fallen down there has been a part of me that has wanted to quit and give up. And I could easily come up with all of the excuses as to why it was easier or better to quit.

But when I faced my fears I ultimately realized that the reason I wanted to quit was because I wasn’t really sure if it was gonna happen. And that was what really scared me.

But what kept me going was knowing that if I gave up IT WASN’T GOING TO HAPPEN!!!

And that is what I’m currently experiencing right now. Just like you there is a part of me that is scared sh*tless that my dream isn’t going to happen. I’m afraid that if I open myself up and g for the GOLD that I will fail.

The only difference is that I’m afraid that this whole GPS for Love thing won’t happen and you’re afraid that the relationship you really want won’t happen. Right?

You see, no matter how unique we think we all are we really are so similar.

We all experience very similar problems and challenges in life. And yes those problems may come in different shapes, colors and sizes but ultimately at the end of the day, they’re all very similar.

And that’s the good news.

Because now that I’m a lil further down the road in my life I no longer see my fear as a problem. I see it as a compass showing me what I need to address and work on.

And once I meet that fear head on and deal with it, it makes it much easier to get thru it.

The BIG problem for most of us is that we run from our fears and let them control us. And there’s a reason for it. No matter how much we logically say we don’t like or want our fears on some level there’s a payoff to having them.

For me I’ve learned that my fears keep me in my safe, comfortable world and keep me from opening up and being vulnerable. And because I don’t have to be vulnerable I don’t have to fail, get hurt or…get screwed again.

But the problem is when we let our fears run us we make it so much more difficult to create the results we really want in life…including an amazing relationship.

I remember when I walked away from my engagement four weeks before I was supposed to walk down the aisle. I remember not sleeping that night and being so paralyzed by the fear. I remember staring at the ceiling and having every possible fear go thru my mind.

“Did I do the right thing?”

“What if I never meet anyone else?

“Am I asking for too much?”
And even though I knew in my heart that I had made the right decision Id be lying if I didn’t admit that I was scared that I would never find the love that my soul so desperately craved.

SO I decided that I had a choice.

I could learn from my past and see it as an expensive learning lesson or I could run from it and avoid it.

I knew if I chose “A” I would increase my chances of having the relationship I really wanted. and if I chose “B” I would continue to struggle and I would increase my chances of having another crappy dead end relationship.

So why am I sharing this with you?

Because right now if you’re reading this there is a part of you that is afraid.

And that part of you is preventing you from gong all in. Right? It’s stopping you from really opening up to the MAGIC that can happen if you face your fears and go for the GOLD.

It’s your fears which are blocking you from having the amazing relationship you really want…and deserve!

And the only way to slay your fear is to face it head on and kick the sh*t out of it.

Yes, it may be scary and it may be easier for you to run and avoid it, but when you get to the end of your journey what will you regret more…

A) Running from your fear and knowing you were never able to have the AMAZING relationship you really wanted

OR

B) Facing your fear, conquering it and creating the type of relationship that most others can only dream of.

The only way to get past your fear is to go thru it and the only way to go thru it is to identify it.

So here’s a lil “Mirror Time” exercise for you. Simply ask yourself…”what am I really afraid of”. And once you identify it, head on over to the GPS for Love blog and share your answer.

And don’t worry when you get there you will see that I have already shared my fear so I’m not asking you to do anything that I’m not willing to do.

The GPS for Love community is designed to help us all support and guide each other because when you know that there are others who have your back, who want to support you when you are struggling it is much easier to face your fears.

You are not alone and We are here to help. But the only way we can support you is for you to share what you’re struggling with.

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog,  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Much Love,
Joe


The Love Cycle -The 3 Phases A Woman Goes Thru To Find Love

Did you ever wonder why some women have have GREAT relationships and others continue to struggle and never get to experience the kind of happy and fulfilling long term relationship/marriage that they really wanted?

Well one of my mentors, Tony Robbins says that “success leaves clues“. Well, when it comes to matters of the heart so does failure.

One of the things that I’ve learned in my journey is that there there are some commonalities among those individuals who win the game of love.

In fact, one of the things I’ve learned is that each one of those individuals has completed the “Love Cycle”.

In this video you’ll learn about the “LoveCycle” and you’ll be able to recognize if you’re headed in the right direction in your love life.

Watch here…

After watching today’s vblog make sure you share what phase of the Love Cycle you are currently in. And if you have any questions or comments make sure to post them too!

The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

What You Resist Persists

Would you like to learn a simple strategy which will greatly improve your love life?

Well, in today’s vblog you’ll learn how a lil change in your perception can make a huge difference in your love life.

to learn what it is
watch this…

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog,  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

3 Steps to Owning Your POWER in Your Love Life

After our last video A LOT of the members of our GPS for Love community realized that they were giving away their POWER to men and were making things much harder on themselves.

And many of these members wanted to what specific steps they could take to get that POWER back.

So today I decided to create a vblog where you will learn 3 specific steps you can take to get your POWER back so you can make things easier on yourself in your love life.

To learn what these three steps are…

Watch this…

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog,  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

The One Thing You Must Do To Attract a Good Guy

One of the things I hear all the time from the members of our GPS for Love community is “How do I meet a good guy?”

Well, there’s good news and there’s bad news.

The bad news is that there isn’t a cookie cutter strategy that will work for everyone.

But that’s also the good news because there are lots of ways to meet a good man.

But before you attract that good man there is one thing you MUST do and I have found that those women who do this one thing are the women who wind up in great relationships.

To learn what that one thing is watch this…

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog,  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

Enjoy!

Much Love,

Joe

Having a Hard Time Taking That Leap of Faith?

Let’s face it. The whole dating and relationship things is a royal pain in the a**.

it often takes every ounce of your energy to pack it in and start pitching for the other team, right?

And that’s part of the problem. it’s hard to get excited and keep putting yourself out there when you’re tired of getting disappointed.

In today’s vblog you will learn the importance of the Leap of Faith and how important it is to have the type of relationship you really want…and deserve!

Watch here..

Enjoy!

Much Love,

Joe

The Red Flag Controversy – What Do You Believe?

As you know several years ago I was engaged to a woman that honestly I should have never even been in a relationship with?

She was a good person and had a good red flagsheart,(which is why I stayed with her for so long) but the reality is she was completely wrong for me)

After our engagement ended on July 20th, exactly 28 days from our scheduled Aug 16ht wedding I decided to take a good look int he mirror and ask myself….”what the hell happened?”

And after taking some “Mirror Time” and taking a good honest look at things I realized that the RED Flags were there from the very beginning, In fact, I remembered an incident that happened on the second date which should have made me realize that I needed to get to know her better before jumping into a relationship with her.

But I didn’t, I jumped into the relationship and ignored the red flags.
You see us human beings (even us men) are wired for love. In fact, we come into the world needing only 3 things:

1) To Be Nourished (Food & Water)
2) To Feel Safe
3) To Be Loved

That’s it. Just three things. And b/c we are “wired” for love and our souls so desperately crave the feeling that being in love gives us, we very often ignore the red flags which are flying in front of our faces.

And sometimes this is hard to admit. Right?

I know this may be controversial and it may be hard for you to accept, especially if you’ve had your heart broken by a guy you loved and trusted but I believe that the red flags are ALWAYS there!

In fact, I have not had one conversation, not one, over the last several years where a woman hasn’t ultimately admitted that if she was honest, really honest with herself, that there were some red flags there.

The problem in most of these cases was that:
1) she didn’t see them as red flags
2) She ignored them

And please understand this is not meant to point fingers and to make anyone wrong. It is simply meant to shine light on how things work.

As you see I openly admit that I ignored the red flags for three years and I was really good at making excuses and justifying to myself and everyone else that the red flags that were flying all around me, weren’t that bad.

But ultimately what I learned is that no matter how much you try, no matter how much you lie and justify things to everyone else, you can’t BS yourself.

The truth will ALWAYS surface.

And this is exactly why I’m hosting a special FR*EE tele-class next Thurs, March 20th at 9PM EDT (6pm pdt)
go here to register ==> Red Flags Tele-class

In this one hour tele-class you’ll not only learn to recognize the red flags, they’re so easy to spot if you know what to look for. But you’ll also learn the specific reasons behind why YOU often see the red flags, but choose to ignore them.

If you’re the type of woman who often finds yourself attracted to men who are wrong for you or if you’re the type of woman who tends to stay in relationships way too long because you think that your love is all a guy needs to change and be the kind of man you’re really looking for, this tele-class is for you.

I know that it’s sometimes tough to admit that we’re the cause of our own problems and it’s so much easier to point the finger and blame others for our pains,

But I have found that the real learning begins when we take a look at the role we play in the way things work out.

So, what do you think? Do you think the red flags are always there? or do you think they’re aren’t?

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog, ”The Red Flag Controversy- What Do You Believe?“  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

A smart person learns from their mistakes, an intelligent person learns from the mistakes of others and a fool never learns they keep making the same mistakes over and over!” -Joe Amoia

Much Love,
Joe

 

Do You Own Your Awesomeness?

One of the most interesting things about us human beings is we often put up a front to prevent others from seeing that we have our stuff.

And sometimes we’re so good at putting up this facade that we even BS ourselves. But underneath this facade is something that many of us struggle with. And it is this THING that may be preventing you from having the kind of relationship you really want.

And as long as this “THING” is present you will be making things much tougher on yourself than it needs to be

To find out what this thing is and how it may be blocking your path to love watch today’s vblog.

Watch here…

As always the action happens below on the blog. Make sure to leave a comment or question  on today’s blog, ”Do You Own Your Awesomeness?”  The GPS for Love Community works best when we’re all sharing, supporting and assisting each other.

 

Much Love,
Joe