Today I’d like to hare something that will help you tremendously in your love life..and ALL aspects of your life.
You see when it comes to your love life there is a part of you that wants things to go your way. You want it to be easy. You don’t want any struggles and you want to know exactly whats going on at all times. RIGHT?
Well, sorry to burst your bubble but that’s not the way it is!
Life, all aspects of it, is filled with a tremendous amount of uncertainty. It is consistently filled with times where there are forces outside of your control that are dictating how things are showing up in your life.
And nowhere is uncertainty more prevalent than in your love life.
It starts as soon as your interested in a guy….
“Does he like me?”
“Is he going to call?
“Should I kiss him?”
“is he seeing anyone else?”
“Is it too soon to sleep with him?
“Are we in a relationship?”
“Will he leave me?”
“Can I trust him?”
It drives you crazy doesn’t it? Because you want the certainty of having those answers. and in most cases you want those answers to be what you think they should be.
And that’s part of the problem. Sometimes you just have to sit with the uncertainty and let things play out.
When I was younger I hated uncertainty. I was the kind of person who wanted to know the answers…”NOW” And because I wanted to know the answers now, I would often force things, instead of just siting back and letting things play out.
But as I got older I learned to dance with the uncertainty. I learned to recognize that it is simply part of life, part of the process and part of the human journey.
And I promise you that if you learn how to embrace the uncertainty things will become so much easier (and more enjoyable) for you
So today I invite you to take some Mirror Time. Take a step back out of your life and look at it as an observer. And I want you to look at your relationship with uncertainty.
What do you see? Do you panic when you are uncertain? Do you try to force things? Do you try to manipulate guys into doing things so you can get your way?
Or do you just sit back and allow things to unfold knowing that no mater how things play out you’re always going to be ok?
After you look at your relationship with uncertainty I invite you to scroll down to the comments section and share your thoughts, feelings and questions about uncertainty in your love life.
Have a great day!