How To Tell If a Guy Is Lying


Have you ever wished you could crawl inside a guy’s brain and understand why he has a hard time telling the truth? Do you wish you had a fool proof B.S. detector which would help you recognize when a guy was telling you the truth and when he was bullsh*tting you?
If so, then today’s video is a must watch because you will learn three simple strategies that you can use to identify when a guy is lying to you.

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Have you ever been in a relationship with a dishonest guy? Were any of these 3 signs present? If so, which one(s)?

How could this video have made a difference if you had it back then? How can you use it to protect yourself from the “boys” who will lie to you in the future?

Scroll down to the comments section and share your thoughts, feedback and questions. I love hearing form you.

Have a Blessed day!

Much Love,


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Is Chivalry Dead?


Chivalry is not dead. It’s just that most women started settling                                                for a lot less than they deserve!”        -Anonymous

I was brought up by a very strict Italian father who taught me how to treat others, especially women.

Almost everything I learned about chivalryhow to treat women I learned from my father’s example.

Now I’m not gonna sugar coat things and pretend I’ve been a perfect gentleman and I never did some crappy or irresponsible things to some of the women in my life. I did!

And I take 100% responsibility for my “boyish” actions!

But I learned early in life that if I did something shitty to a woman (or anyone else), the Universe had an interesting way of paying me back for my transgressions.

One of the things I hear all the time from women, is that there are no good men out there (or they’re all taken or gay). And it breaks my heart. Because the truth is there are a lot of good men out there who do know how to treat women.

And many of these guys are just as frustrated as you are because…

  • some women won’t give em the time of day b/c they don’t look like Brad Pitt
  • some women prefer the excitement, challenge and unpredictability of the boys more than the safety, security and inner character of  a MAN
  • they’re not given a fair shot to show what a great MAN they are because they don’t pass the instant chemistry test that so many women hold them to

It’s sad, really sad because there was a time in my life where I was one of those “good guys.”

So why am I sharing this with you?

Because I want to know if you really believe Chivalry is dead.

Now I will agree that there are tons of guys who could care less about being chivalrous to a woman. These are the guys that we have come to refer to as the “boys.” These are the guys who are selfish, emotionally unavailable and who lack integrity.

These are the guys that I recommend you stay far away from if you are looking to have a happy, fulfilling, long lasting relationship.

But there are also a lot of good, solid, and caring MEN out there who do know how to treat women.

But unfortunately many of these guys will never get the chance for a woman to know what great partners they can be because they’re never really given a fair shot.

Now I’m not asking you to date a troll. I’m not saying you should pursue a relationship with a guy that repulses you.

Because to have a successful relationship you must be attracted to a man you are going to be intimate with.

I’m simply asking you to take some Mirror Time and look at your thoughts about men.

Because the funny thing about guys is that the ones who keep showing up in your life are the ones you are unconsciously programmed to attract!

Instead of focusing on how scarce the good guys are, instead of focusing on how selfish and self absorbed the “boys” are and how the only thing they care about is getting laid, I want you to start focusing on finding the one good man who you can give you the love, honor and respect you deserve!

Because once you find that one guy the number of “boys” you’ve come across  no longer matters!

What are your thoughts on men and chivalry?

Scroll down down and let us know. And if you have any other questions about men and chivalry make sure to post em as well. I read ’em all!

Hope this helps!

Much Love

P.S. I know these blogs might sometimes come across as some unrealistic bullsh*t. But here is an e-mail I received the other day from a woman who made a slight change to the way she looked at guys….

About 3 months ago I learned this lesson you spoke of today and changed my beliefs to this:

  • Men love women who are happy and content.
  • Men are lots of fun to be with when you relax in their company and let them bring out their masculinity

Since then, I have been getting so many dates with men who are awesome. Now instead of going home after a date and crying in my Haagen Dazs lol I go home and look forward to another date.

At first I thought this type of advice was all woo woo bullsh*t but it really is life changing once you get it!

Listen to Joe ladies…. this truly works.

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Having Trouble Finding A Good Man….TRY THIS


What if you were to learn that there were some very specific reasons why some women succeed in their love lives and others (like you) continue to struggle?

And what if you could learn that one of those biggest reasons was something within your control and something that you could learn how to change?

And by making a simple change you would greatly increase your chances of finding a quality man.

Would that interest you? If so, watch this video now….

There’s a lil Mirror Time exercise at the end of the vblog to help you identify the potential cause of your struggles, so make sure you watch til the very end.

And after you watch the video and do the exercise, scroll down to the comments section and share how today’s vblog is helpful and how you can use it to find the quality man you desire…and deserve!


Much Love,


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Why It’s Hard to Make The Right Choices In Your Love Life


Does your mind lead you to make decisions that your heart often winds up regretting? Do you often find that you make choices which feel good in the moment but which work against bad choicesyou in the long run?

Well, if so, welcome to the world of being human! It’s a character trait that we all suffer from, including me.

You see, as human beings we are wired to try to get our emotional needs met, and when there is something that we want NOW, our logic goes out the window.

This is why you know a guy isn’t the right guy for you and yet you have a hard time letting him go and moving on.

This is why you pursue guys who you know from the very beginning will never be the kind of MAN who can give you the type of relationship you really want.

And this is why you continue to stay in relationships with guys who are not consistently giving you the love, honor and respect you know you deserve.

When it comes to human behavior, especially in the love department, logic goes out the window.

We human beings are emotional creatures and everything we do is based on one thing and one thing only…getting our emotional needs met!

And if we have to violate our values, make excuses as to why it’s OK or come up with a laundry list of rationalizations and justifications as to why it’s OK to stay in a Toilet Bowl Relationship (the crappy one), we’re going to do what we need to do in order to get those emotional needs met….EVERYTIME!

So today, I have a little assignment for you. A ‘lil Mirror Time exercise to help you tame this hedonistic, irrational and often unhealthy part of your brain.

I want you to look at your prior relationships, especially the one where you shake your head and say “What was I thinking? And I want you to revisit that relationship for a few minutes. And then I want you to ask yourself this one question….”Why did I stay as long as I did?”

And then I want you to come over and scroll down to the comments section and share what you have learned, because your answer to this question will be the catalyst to help you grow so that you don’t make the same mistake…again.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

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How To Make a Relationship Last


Ever wondered why some relationships stand the test of time and yours don’t?

Would you like to learn three things you can do to increase your chances of having a realtionship that starts off good and gets better with the passing of time?

If so, I invite you to watch this video…

After you watch today’s video I invite you take some Mirror Time to see if any of the three steps were missing in your previous realtionship(s) and how you can use these three steps to help you create the realtionship you really want…one that’s gonna last!

Much Love,


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Is It Time For A Change?


I just want you to know that I’ve gone through most of the survey responses and I’m gonna be making some tweaks to the way we deliver GPS for Love to our community. The good news is that a lot of the suggestions are already in the pipeline and you’ll be seeing what you’ve asked for real soon.                       change

One of the common suggestions we received was to create both written and video blogs on a consistent basis. It seems half of our community liked the written blogs and half liked the video blogs so we decided to do both each week.

We’ve also decided to scale back the blogs from 3x/week to 2x/week. Based on the survey this seems to be the number that works best for the majority of our GPS for Love community.

Now I understand that some individuals may not like the changes and if you’re one of them I apologize but the simple truth is it is impossible to please everyone.

If you feel the changes do not work for you I understand but I’d love for you to stick around and stay a part of the GPS for Love community because I have a funny feeling you’re gonna like some of the other changes we’ll be soon making.

So why am I sharing all of this info about the changes we’re making here at

Two reasons:

1) Because I love and respect you and don’t want to make any changes without giving you        a heads up.(Because that’s what a MAN does!)

2) Change is often necessary to grow and get better results in your life

Change often requites that you have to let go of something. And that’s scary.

I gotta admit, when I first read the survey results and a lot of our community requested the written blogs I got a lil nervous.

It is so much easier and natural for me to create a video. I love to talk and have no problem sharing my opinion.  But writing a blog…YUCK!

It’s not that I don’t like it, it’s just that it is much more difficult and time consuming for me. One of the reasons it’s difficult for me is because my brain works faster than my fingers.

I’m constantly making typos and it’s usually on the same friggin’ words. And even though I use autocorrect and Natalie as my editor, some of these typos fall though the cracks and make it into our e-mails and blogs.

So even though there is a part of me that wants to resist the changes I know that GPS for Love will never grow if we don’t make ’em.

And that is why change is necessary.

So today I want you to take some serious Mirror Time and see what changes you need to make in your love life.

Is there something you must let go of? Is there something that you’re doing which you know isn’t serving you? Is there something you should be doing but you’re afraid to do it because you’re afraid that if you do you may not get the results you really want in your love life?

The reason we resit change is always due to one thing…FEAR!

So today I’m challenging you to face that fear head on. Because not facing and dealing with it is going to be so more painful than just looking it straight in the eye and kicking it’s ass!

And if there is a change you know you should be making but you’re afraid to make it, let us know…the community is here for you!

To share your questions, comments and challenges on making changes in your love life simply scroll down to the reply box.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


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The Love Cycle


Since Today is Good Friday, the day many Christians celebrate the crucifixion of Jesus I wanted to share a popular vblog I did a few years ago which talks about the Love Cycle.

What is the Love Cycle?

It’s the 3 phases that your love life must goes though.

Understanding what the love cycle is and how the three phases work is something that will help you tremendously in your because it helps you to realize that the pain of a breakup is often designed to help you move closer to the relationship you are really looking for.

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After watching this video I invite you to take some Mirror Time and ask yourself which phase of the Love Cycle are you currently in.

Is it the death phase where your relationship is on its last legs or has just ended? Is it the Reorganization phase where your head is spinning and you’re trying to figure out what happened and why another relationship ended? Or is it the rebirth phase where you have to come to terms with your past, you’ve learned what changes you need to make and you’re ready to put yourself out there to find the love you really want.

Make sure you scroll down and share your observations, comments and questions about the Love Cycle and how today’s vblog relates to you.

Have an amazing day!

Much Love,

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Love Addiction- The 3 Signs You’re Addicted To Love


The desire for love is one of the greatest desires will experience on this planet.

From the moment we are born we are hardwired to love and to be loved.

Unfortunately this desire to be loved can be turned into an unhealthy addiction to try and get a love “fix”, similar to the way a drug addict gets their fix from cocaine or heroin.

In this video you will learn the 3 signs of Love Addiction and how to recognize if you are a Love Addict.

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And after you watch today’s vblog I invite you to take some Mirror Time to do some soul searching to see if this resonates with you.

Are you a Lover Addict or are you currently in recovery? Scroll down to the comments section and share how Love Addiction relates to you and your love life.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


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A Big Thank You!


I wanted to take the opportunity to send a HUGE thank you to you and all of the otehr members of our GPS for Love community.

Something really cool happened the other thank youday I want to share it with you.

The reason I want to share it with you is because if you would have told me when I started this crazy journey that this was going to happen I would have had a hard time believing it.

You see, when I left my chiropractic career to start GPS for Love (which was Smarter Dating at the time), everyone (except Natalie) thought I was nuts.

And I could understand why. Because on the surface it looked like a really dumb decision.

I had spent four years of my life getting my Doctorate and I spent 15 years in my chiropractic practice and to give it up to help others find love was not a decision a sane person would make…especially if that person was responsible for providing for his family

But what everyone didn’t understand was that this was not a spur of the moment decision. I didn’t just wake up one day,close my office and start a website (That’s a story for another day!)

This is not something I set out to do. In fact, if you would have told me 10 years ago that this is what I would be doing I would have thought you were on some serious drugs.

GPS for Love is a calling, and as corny as that may sound, it is the truth. There was some big Universal force which led me down this path

And what happened the otehr day was just confirmation that once again, the Universe always knows best!

So what was this BIG thing…. our GPS for Love Channel hit over 2,000,000 views….that’s TWO MILLION VIEWS!!!!

And I share this with you not to brag or boost my own ego because hopefully by now you understand that I’m not that kind of guy.

I am sharing this with you because there will be times in your love life, where you’re going to have to make tough decisions, decisions which you know are right in your gut and everyone around you might think you nuts too!

But if you don’t listen to your gut and make those tough decisions there”s a great chance you’ll live to regret it.

You see, when you listen to your gut and you trust the guidance of the Universe some really cool things will happen for you…including finding the love you never thought you’d find.

But in order to do that you must be willing to give up the good to go for the great! Because the Universe doesn’t reward people who play small.

It rewards those who are brave enough to go for the gold and who stay committed to the goal not matter how difficult things may seem to appear at times.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


Are you struggling with making a tough decision in your love life? Are you in a rough patch and you’re questioning if you made the right move? Or are you on the verge of making a tough decision and you’re afraid that if you make it you may never find the lover you really want?

If so, scroll down to the comments section and share what you’re struggling with, we’d love to help you get some clarity.


Are you new to the GPS for Love community or have you been with us a while? Either way I would love it if you let me know what you like most about GPS for Love. And if you have any suggestions for what you would like to see in the future or how I may serve you better, feel free to those as well.

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How Important is Chemistry?


One of the biggest mistakes you may be making in your love life is focusing too much on chemistry.

The problem with chemistry for most women is that they don’t understand what it really is and they don’t understand it’s role in creating a successful, long term relationship.

in this video you will learn what REAL chemistry really is and how to know if you’re making it more important than it needs to be.

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Have you been focusing too much on chemistry in your love life? Do you tend to walk away from guys quickly when you don’t feel the chemistry you think you should feel?

Scroll down and share your questions, comments and feedback on chemistry and how important it is to you.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


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