How To Tell If A Guy is Interested in Having a Relationship…With You

I recently received an e-mail from one of the members of our GPS for Love community who wanted to know how she could tell when a guy was interested in her vs when he was interested in her only for what was in her pants.

It’s a common question that many of the members of our GPS for Love community struggle with so today I decided to create a video to help you recognize the three signs which let you know a guy is really interested in you…for more than a sex toy

Watch here…

If you have any questions, comments or feedback on how a guy shows he’s interested in a relationship please feel free to post em in the comments section below.


Much Love,


Fools Rush In

The other night I was having a hard time staying asleep so I decided to turn on the TV and do some channel surfing. And after scanning thru the billion channels I was finally able to find something fools rush into watch.

It was a movie from the 80′s called Fools Rush In starring Matthew Perry from Friends and the beautiful Salma Hayek (yes, I think she’s a hottie!).

Now I must admit I have seen this movie before. In fact, I have probably seen it about a dozen times over the years. I’m a sucker for 80′s movies and I can watch most of them over and over again.

As I started watching this movie I started reflecting on my own love life. I started thinking about all of the times I rushed into a relationships. In fact, I even noticed a pattern. I normally would go out with a girl once or twice and the next thing I knew I was in a relationship.

In almost every instance a few weeks or months would go by and I would realize that I should have never been with this woman in the first place (and to be honest, there were times where the woman realized that she shouldn’t be with me.)

I remember after my engagement ended realizing that one of the biggest mistakes I made with my ex was jumping into a relationship before I really knew her.

In fact, it was that little bit of Mirror Time which helped me to realize that if I was going to have the type of relationship I really wanted than I had to be smarter abut the women I chose to have a relationship with. It made sense that if I took a lil time and got to know someone better than I would automatically increase my chances of having a good relationship. I decided that from that moment on I was going to get to know someone a lil better BEFORE I jumped into a relationship with them.

And that one simple change made a huge difference in my love life and it was a key factor which helped me to create the relationship I really wanted.
So, why am I sharing this with you? Because if you are like I was, one of the biggest mistakes that you may be making is jumping into a relationship too soon.

Now, believe me I understand. Us human beings are wired for love. It’s in our DNA. And sometimes we want it so bad (or we’re afraid we’ll never find it ) that we try to force things and we rush into relationships.

One of the best tings you can do to increase your chances of having a rockin’ relationship is to get to know someone, to actually “date” them a few times BEFORE you jump into a relationship with them.

Because when you do take your time you’re and you actually get to know the person you’ll get to see more of who they are and you’ll be in a much better postilion to know if they’re a good match for you.

So, today I invite you to take some Mirror Time and look over your past as of you were an observer. Would you notice that you have a history of jumping into relationships?

And if you do ask yourself this one question…”How is that working?”

And more importantly ask yourself , “What can I do differently to increase my chances so that I can have the kind of relationship (and guy) I really want?”

After taking that Mirror Time I invite you to share your observations, questions or comments below with the other members of our community so that they can learn from your insight and experience.

Have an amazing day!

Much Love,

Why You Attract Toxic Guys & Toxic Relationships

As I was beginning to start a three day juice cleanse to get rid of the toxins from my body I started thinking about why I was feeling so toxic.

Well, within a few seconds I knew what I was going to talk about today. Because, believe it or not, the emotional process of eating food that isn’t healthy is very similar to the emotional process that causes you to attract toxic guys and relationships.

If you tend to attract (or be attracted to) the wrong types of guys or you have a history of toxic relationships I invite you to check out today’s video

Watch here…

After you watch the vblog I invite you to take some Mirror Time and see which one(s) are causing you to struggle in your love life.
And after you’re done make sure to scroll down to the comments section below  and share any observations, questions or comments you may have.
The GPS for Love blog is a safe place to share and receive the direction you need to create the relationship you really want
Much Love,

Why Texting Is Making It Harder to Find Love

Let’s face it. We live in a face paced, technologically driven world. There are many advantages and benefits to this modern technology, but when it comes to love and building a rock solid relationship that there is one technology I believe is working against you and making it harder to have the relationship you really want.

What is this technology? TEXTING!

And in this vblog you will learn the three reasons it is making it harder for you to find the love you really want

Watch here…

After you watch it I invite you to share any questions, comments or feedback you may have.


Much Love,


Are Your Walls Hurting You or Helping You?

I was recently having a conversation with a woman and within a few minutes of talking to her it was clear that she had up an emotional wall2wall….A BIG ONE!

And I must admit when I was younger I would have judged this woman. But as they say with age comes wisdom. Now I must admit I’m not that smart and I know I have a lot more to learn in my life. But I think I’m a lot smarter than when I was younger (or at least I hope I am).

One of the things I have learned is that everything a human being does they do for a very specific and predictable reason.

And the same was true for this woman. You see the wall she had put up was there for a very specific reason, to protect her from getting hurt…again.

In talking to this woman it was clear that emotional pain she had experienced had taken a toll on her psyche. She had been hurt a lot, especially by those she loved. There were several experiences of pain that she had not dealt with, with her parents and ending with her ex-husband.  And even though she had read a lot of books and done some work on herself the emotional scars of being hurt and betrayed by those she loved had still
not healed.

So, it is understandable why she put up the walls. The only problem was that her walls were preventing her from having the love that she really wanted.

You know the irony with putting up an emotional wall is that it actually hurts you more than it protects you. And that’s part of the problem because most of the time you’re not even aware how strong your wall is.

An emotional wall makes it impossible for you to open up and be vulnerable enough for love to find its way into your heart. And even though the wall may protect you from being hurt or betrayed it hurts you more because it prevents you from opening up to love.

And do you know what the irony is, most of the time you’re not even aware that these walls exist because they’re created by your subconscious mind. And when it comes to keeping you safe and protecting you your unconscious mind is very crafty & creative.

And this is exactly what happened with this woman. She created such a defense mechanism and it was so automatic that she wasn’t even aware that it was there. And it was exactly why she kept picking guys the “wrong” guys, guys who were emotionally unavailable and never able to give her the love she says she wants.

You see it was no coincidence that she kept picking the wrong guys. Because even though these guys might disappoint her and let her down she never had to open herself up and be vulnerable because unconsciously she believed that if she did she would only experience more pain.

So today, I invite you to take some Mirror Time to see if you may have unknowingly put up a wall. And if you’re not sure there’s an easy way to learn. Simply look for a pattern. Do you consistently pick the wrong men? Do you favor the “boys” over the “MEN?” Do you make it difficult for a guy to get close to you? Do you have trouble trusting and opening up and being vulnerable?
All of these may be signs that your wall needs to come down

And if you notice one of these patterns in your life I invite you to take down that wall and replace it with a fence, one which will keep out the “BOYS’ and only allow in the “MEN.”

If you have any questions, comments or feedback I invite you share’ em below.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

P.S. If you know you have a wall and you’re having trouble taking it down I invite you to check out the GPS for Love Mentoring Program, I’d love to help you tear it down. I’m just getting ready to open up 5 more spots (check your e-mail tomorrow) so if you’re interested act now. Click Here for more info.

The REAL Reasons Why Men Cheat

Being cheated on and betrayed is one of the worst experiences we can go thru in life.

Unfortunately in most cases the reason why a guy will cheat has little to do with the person he is cheating on and everything to do with what is going on for him emotionally

If you’ve ever wondered what causes a guy to cheat on a woman, especially when he says he loves her, this video is a MUST

Watch here…

If you’ve ever been cheated on I invite you to  take some time to post any questions, comments and feedback you may have below.

Your insight and feedback is essential and may help another member of the GPS for Love community who may currently be struggling with being betrayed by a guy she loved

Much Love,


How To Get Over Your Ex

Having trouble getting over your ex?

Tired of listening to your friends and loved ones tell you “Things will get better“, “There’s someone better out there for you” and my favorite, “When the time is right the right one will fall into your lap”

I understand. Because what they’re telling you logically isn’t helping you get rid of the pain you are feeling emotionally.

So I decided to create a video that describes 3 steps you can take to heal that emotional pain so that you can get your ex out of your head and out of your life… for good!

Watch here…

After you watch the vblog make sure to post the one step you are going to take today which will take you one step closer to getting over your ex.

Much Love,



How To Keep A Guy Interested in You

Ever wonder if there was something that you can to do keep a guy interested in you?

Well, there is. In fact there’s two things that you MUST do if you are going to get a guy to want to be with you and only you.

Now if you’re looking for some cheesy tips on how to manipulate or trick a guy into being with you.

I’m talking about two real life, practical  strategies which are so common sense that most single women are overlooking them.

But then again when it comes to dating and relationships common sense isn’t so common

Watch here…

After you watch the vblog make sure to take some Mirror Time to see which of these two areas you could improve upon.

I invite you to post any observations, questions or comments you may have below

Much Love,



Can You Love Yourself Even When You Suck?

Today I want to share something that happened to me and how it can help you find a man who will love and accept you for who you are. love yourself

On January first I decided that I wanted to get in better shape. The Big Five-O is coming around the corner and one of my goals is to be in the best shape of my life when that day occurs.

So in January I decided to kick things into gear and by mid-march I was at a weight I hadn’t seen in over 20 years.

I was feeling really good about myself. My energy was thru the roof, I really liked what I saw in the mirror and everyone was complimenting me on how good I looked (I’ll admit my ego was loving it!)

But then May came and it all started to go downhill

It started first on my birthday when Natalie got me a birthday cake made of cupcakes by Mr. Cupcake (if you’re in north jersey find a Mr Cupcakes near you and GO!)
And from the moment I ate that first cupcake it was all downhill.

The next two months were filled with birthday’s, holidays, parties and BBQ’s and because Natalie & I both come from Italian families most of these events revolve around…FOOD.
So, guess what?

All that hard work I had put in since the beginning of the year went down the toilet. This morning went I finally had the balls to get back on the scale ( I had been avoiding it b/c I knew I wasn’t going to like what I was going to see) I got really pissed…for about 10 seconds

This is not the first time I’ve gone thru this cycle. In fact it’s happened a lot in my life. I’ve struggled with my weight since I was a young boy.

Instead of beating myself up (like I used to ) I simply decided to get back on the wagon. So, first thing this morning I went fro a 45 min bike ride.

I’m at the point in my life where I’m done beating myself up because I’ve learned that it really doesn’t do any good.

I’ve learned that in order to have inner peace it’s important that you learn to love and accept yourself .

It is so much easier to find a man who will love you for you when you learn to love yourself..even when you suck!
There’s this myth out there that you have to be perfect and be a size zero before a guy will love you and want to be with you.

And it’s bullsh*t!
Yes, that may be true for the “boys” but those guys make horrible boyfriends and husbands.

The RIGHT guy will love you for who you are, the good, the bad and the imperfect. Because your imperfections are what make you unique.
And any guy who won’t love and accept you for who you are simply isn’t the right guy for you and isn’t’ worthy of your love.

I can promise you that the more you are able to love and accept yourself, the easier it will be to find that guy who will love you because one of the things that is most attractive to a man is a woman who knows who she is and who isn’t afraid of being vulnerable.

Is there a part of you that you have trouble loving and accepting. Do you think you have to be or do something different before a guy will love you?

If so I invite you to share your struggles below in the comment section of today’s blog. What you’ll see is you’re not alone.

The GPS for Love community is a safe place to receive the guidance, feedback and support you need to help you on your journey in finding the love you deserve

Hope this helps

Much Love,

if you know someone who is struggling and who may benefit from today’s blog please do them a favor and forward this to them. It may be the pick me up they need.

What To Do When A Guy Pulls Away

Have you ever been involved with a guy who suddenly changes his behavior and starts pulling away?

And you’re wondering what happened and how you can get him back?

In today’s video you’ll learn why guys like this tend to pull away and how to recognize the red flags which show you that a guy isn’t the MAN you thought he was

After you watch today’s vblog I invite you to answer these questions

1) Have you ever been in this position?

2) What did you do and how did it work out? 

3) If this was happening to you now, what would you do?

And then make sure to post your repso0nses, questions and feedback below so that the other members of the GPS Community (including Kate) can learn from your experience


Much Love,