How To Guarantee A Man Never Cheats


Being cheated on is one of the worst things that can happen to a person who in a relationship.

Being brayed after you give your heart and soul (and other body parts) to a person who throws it all away to jump into bed with someone else is, to me, the ultimate form of betrayal and disrespect.

But did you know there are things, very specific things that you could do to make sure that your partner would never even consider cheating on you?

Well, you’re in luck because in today’s video you’ll learn about three specific things that you can do to make sure your partner would only want to be intimate with you and only you.

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Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever cheated on your partner?

What are your thoughts on cheating and today’s vblog? I’d love to hear from you.

Much Love,


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Do You Give Too Much In Your Relationships?


Do you tend to give a lot in your relationships and get very little back in return? Do you find that you attract guys who only care about themselves and getting what they want without any consideration for you and your needs?

If so I invite you to watch this video NOW because you will learn two things:

1) It is possible to give too much.

2) How to recognize the six indicators signs which will let you know you are giving too much…. to the WRONG guy

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I invite you to watch til the end because there is a Mirror Time exercise designed to help you recognize the reasons why you may give more than you get back in return.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,


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What’s Your Biggest Deal Breaker?



It’s Joe. Happy Tuesday!

It’s Day #3 here in Disney with Nat & the boys and today is an extra special day because it’s my youngest son’s 8th birthday.roadrunner2

But before we head out the door I want to send you an e-mail to talk about your….DEAL BREAKERS!

You see when I was single and dating I was crystal clear on my deal breakers.

I knew there were things that I would not tolerate AT ALL if I was going to spend the rest of my life in a relationship with someone.

And the second I recognized one of my deal breakers in someone I was interested I pulled a “roadrunner”!

[NOTE*** For those members of the GPS for Love community who may be younger, the roadrunner was a cartoon from my childhood…google it!]

I didn’t care how great the chemistry was and how much I had in “common” with the other person, I knew if the other person violated my deal breaker…they weren’t the person for me.

Today I want to take a lil mirror time and think about your deal breakers.

I want you to ask yourself, “If I’m going to spend the rest of my life with someone, what is it that I won’t put up with or tolerate?”

And when you’re done I want you to scroll down to the comments section and share what your biggest deal breaker is and why it’s so vital to you.

Have a blessed day!

Much Love,

P.S. If you’re wondering what my biggest deal breaker was, it was and still is…RESPECT!

Because I knew if a person didn’t respect me (with their words and their actions) there was no way in hell I could ever be happy in a relationship with that person.

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The Difference Between a Good Man & The Right Man


One of the biggest mistakes you may be making in your love life is looking for a good man instead of the right man and not knowing the difference between the two will make your love life much harder than it needs to be.

In today’s vblog you will learn the difference between a GOOD MAN and the RIGHT MAN and you’ll also learn the 3 signs to look for which will let you know how to recognize the right man when he comes along.

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How can you use today’s vblog to help you in your love life? Scroll down to the comments section and let me know your thoughts, questions and feelings on the difference between a good guy and the right guy.

I love hearing form you!

Much Love,


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Are You Worthy of The Love You Say You Want?


“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results!”
                                                                               –Albert Einstein

I was thinking about what I was going to write about today when all of a sudden I started thinking about a woman I know who has been struggling in her love life for years.                bandicam 2016-05-24 09-03-28-768

When you talk to this women she sounds like she’s got it all together. She comes across as smart, articulate, strong and she’s very attractive.

And when you ask her what she’s looking for in her love life, she says all the right things.

The problem is if you were to observe the way she makes choices and decisions in her love life….it’s all wrong.

She has the same pattern. She meets a guy, there’s is a great attraction and chemistry and for a few weeks or months she is convinced he is “The One.”

And then, invariably a few weeks or months later the relationship ends and she puts on her victim hat.

This scenario has been going on for over two decades.

If you talk to this women you would think she is great and any man would be lucky to have her on his arm.

The problem is deep down, she doesn’t really believe she is worthy of a great man and a great relationship.

You see, when you truly believe you deserve love, you make choices and decisions which show that you are worthy.

You don’t make excuses for guys who do not CONSISTENTLY deliver the love you are looking for.

You do not give your precious heart (and other body parts) to a guy who has not earned the right to hold and cherish them. And you do not make choices and decisions which are not in direct alignment with the love you say you want.

When you truly believe you are worthy of a good man and a great relationship…you don’t settle for anything less!

I do not believe in a God/Universe that arbitrarily decides who will find love and who won’t. I don’t believe in a God/Universe that would put a desire in your heart and not make it possible for you to have it.

That would be a sick and cruel God/Universe

So why Joe do others find love and I continue to struggle”

I believe it’s only due to two things:
1) It’s on its way and you just have to be a lil more patient
2) Deep down you do not believe your worthy of it and as a result you make choices and decisions that work against you in the long run

Now you can give me all of the evidence to support your struggles. You can tell me all about the “boys” and how sh*tty they are and the games they play.

And I won’t disagree with you.

If you’ve been following me and GPS for Love for awhile you know I’ll be the first to tell you that there are a ton of these selfish, immature, emotionally unavailable guys out there.

And I’ll also agree that most of them only want to know you for what is in your pants.

Those are the guys you must stay away from! Those are the guys you cannot even consider having a relationship with, no matter how much you have in common and no matter how great the chemistry appears to be. Because those guys will never be able to give you the love you are looking for.

Want to get a good idea of how worthy you actually believe you are? Want to be able to predict if you are ever going to have the love you say you want?

Take some Mirror Time and do these two things:

#1 Ask yourself “Do I really believe I am worthy of a good man and a great relationship?

#2 Take a good hard look at your love life and the choices and decisions you have been (and are) making.

And see if #1 & #2 match up.

If they do, simply keep doing what you are doing. Put yourself out there and shine your amazing light into the world so that the right MAN can find you.

And if they don’t, realize you’ve got to make some changes. You’ve got to do some things differently, because if you don’t, you’ll keep making the same mistakes and coming up with the same results.

And you deserve better!

After taking your Mirror Time I invite you scroll down to the comments section and share what your Mirror Time has revealed. I also encourage you to let us know how you are going to use today’s blog to help take you one step closer to the relationship you desire..and deserve

Have a Blessed day!

Much Love,

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How To Attract A Man


Have you ever wished you had a strategy which would help you stand out form all the other single women so that a man would be attracted to you & only you?

If so, I invite you to watch today’s video because you will not only learn  how to attract the man you are looking for, but you’ll also learn what it takes to make him realize that you are the one woman that he can’t live without.

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At the end of the video is a lil Mirror Time exercise which will give you a good indication on what kind of “attraction energy” you are putting out into the Universe.

Make sure to take the Mirror Time and once you do I invite you to post your observations and questions below.

Shine Bright!

Much Love,



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The Three Phases of Dating


Do you hate dating? Are you tired of all the games, drama and B.S. that most individuals experience in being single and looking for love?

In this video you’re going to learn about the three phases of dating and how to use them to your advantage to make dating easier and more enjoyable.

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After watching today’s vblog I invite you to look at your love life and see how you can use today’s vblog to make dating easier and more enjoyable.

And if you have any questions, comments or feedback on the three phases of dating make sure to post ’em below.

Have an awesome day!

Much Love,


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Is It OK For A Guy To Ask A Woman Out Via Text?


I was recently having a session with one of my platinum mentoring clients who was asked out by a guy she has never met or spoken to via a text?

Now before we go into further details I’m just gonna come straight out and say it….I think texting is the devil!

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I think it’s one of the worst things to happen to our society and I think it’s completely eroding the ability of people to communicate in a healthy way….as adults.

In fact, I was recently at a party where several people were sitting around a table and instead of talking to each other and having a good time they all sat there for a few hours looking at their g*ddamn phones with their fingers moving  a mile a minute.

Now don’t get me wrong. If you’re stuck in traffic or you want to tell someone you’re running a lil late texting can be a very useful tool.

Now texting wasn’t around when I met my wife & I am so grateful. Because even though I see that is the “norm” I believe it has made dating so much more difficult than it needs to be.


Because I believe texting makes it easier to hide who they really are. And it makes it easier for people to avoid being rejected.

And as a result it takes much longer for you to get to know someone and see their true colors.

Because let’s face it, there’s a large percentage of single people who have a hard time opening up and communicating and texting makes it much easier to hide their insecurities.

You see when you text you are able to hide behind an electronic gadget. No one has to see your face. It becomes a safe place to hide and protect yourself from completely opening up and being vulnerable.

And it blows my mind that a woman would go out with a guy who has asked her out via a text, event though she has never met him or spoken to him.

I believe that any man who doesn’t ask a woman out in person or at least on the phone is a coward and not a man that a woman should invest in.

And I know it is harsh. But think about it….

If you’re going to spend the rest of your life with a guy you need him to be a MAN, a stand up guy that you can count on to be there to have your back and make you feel safe.

And what does it say about the intestinal fortitude of a guy if he doesn’t deem it important enough to ask you out while actually speaking to you?

Now I may be old school and this may come across as a tough. But the truth is ladies, a guy will keep getting away with this sh*t if you allow him to.

When you are clear on your boundaries and you know what you will and will not tolerate from a guy you show a guy how you want to be treated.

And any guy who doesn’t naturally treat you the way you want to be treated isn’t a guy who is worthy of having you on his arm.

I’m not naive or stupid enough to believe that you are going to change the culture of the mass of guys who use texting as their main way of communicating with you.

I’m simply helping you to see that if you want to create a long lasting, fulfilling relationship with a stand up guy you’ll have a much greater chance of doing so if you find a guy who is MAN enough to actually ask you out while speaking to you on the phone or in person.

So, what do you think? Do you agree? Do you have a problem with a guy who asks you out via text? Or do you disagree? You see nothing wrong with a guy who asks you out via text?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Scroll down to let me know what you think.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,
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Are Your Standards Too High?


If you’re going to spend the rest of your life with one person it’s vital that you have standards, very high ones. But there is a fine line between having high standards and unrealistic standards.

A Lesson I learned the hard way. In this video you will learn the recognize when you’re being too picky because your standards are too high and unrealistic and when you are being smart and your standards are right where they need to be.

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Have your standards been an obstacle in your love life? Have you been told you’re too picky?
Are your standards too low and you find yourself involved with guys who simply don’t measure up?
Are you confused because you have no idea if your standards are too high or too low?

Scroll down to the comments section and share your thoughts on your standards and how they may or not be working for you in your love life.

I’d love to hear what you think!

Much Love,


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3 Signs It’s Time To Walk Away


Have you ever been involved with a guy when your head was telling you to leave but your heart wouldn’t let you because you had faith that things were going to get better?

It’s a common mistake many women make in their love lives and unfortunately their hope and faith rarely pays off.

In this video you will learn how to recognize that it is the right time to walk away from a relationship.

If you want to know when a relationship is worth investing in and when it isn’t…this vblog is a must.

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After watching today’s vblog I invite you to revisit your previous relationships and see how having this information would have made a difference in your love life.

Make sure to share your “Aha’s” and any other questions you have about knowing when to leave a guy or relationship in the comments box below.

Much Love,


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