The 3 MAJOR Obstacles to Love

Have you ever wondered why others find love and you continue to to struggle in your love life?

IS there a part of you that knows something’s missing but you just can’t put your finger on it?

Well, in today’s video you will learn of the three MAJOR obstacles which may be blocking your path to love

If you have been single or in an unhappy relationship for awhile this video is a MUST

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Hope it Helps!

Much Love,


Are You Ready To Find Love in 2015?

We’re just a few hours away from the beginning of 2015 and before we put the lid on 2014 I wanted to send you one last e-mail. new years love

If you’re like most of the members of our GPS for Love community, you’re not happy with you’re love life.

Maybe it’s because 2014 saw the end of your relationship. Maybe it’s because another year passed by and you didn’t’ find the love you were hoping for. Or maybe it’s because you’re in relationship where you’re not really happy because deep down you know you want more, you deserve more, but there’s a part of you that’s afraid to leave because you think you’ll never find the love you really want…and deserve.

And I get it. There was a New Year’s man, many years ago where I felt the same way.

But then things changed. I met “The One”. The woman who made me feel like God was shining down on me. The woman I always wanted, but was afraid I would never find.

And I’m writing to you today to let you know that no matter what your past has been like. No matter how much you’ve struggled (or are struggling) in your love life) THINGS WILL TURN AROUND!

All you need is HOPE and a willingness to keep putting yourself out there. Because when you do, things will eventually change When you have HOPE you know that it’s possible that this time next year you will be ringing in the NEW Year with the love of your life.

But in order for that, you’ve got to let go of some stuff, you’ve got to do some things differently. And most importantly you must believe and know in your heart that it can and will happen.

Because once you believe it will happen you will make healthier and smarter choices in your love life.

In 2015 my hope for you is that you know how awesome you are and you know that deserve nothing but the best. You deserve a man who loves, honors and respects you (yes, guys like that are out there). Because when you know that you deserve the best
you stop settling for less than you deserve.

So, as we bring in the New Year I invite you to bring it in with HOPE. Hope for an awesome year that ends with you arm in arm with the MAN who recognizes that you are the best thing that ever happened to him.

Because once you find that MAN the past and all of the BOYS no longer matter. The only thing that will matter is that you both continue to love, honor and respect each other (in and out of the bedroom!).

So tonight when you raise your glass to summon in 2015, do so with the intention of bringing that ONE MAN into your life and into your heart. And then leave the the details up to the BIG GUY in the sky.

Remember, you only need…ONE!

Here’s to you and a Amazing 2015 filled with love!

Happy New Year!

Much Love,


The #1 Thing Your Relationship Problems Have in Common

Did you ever wonder why some individuals hit the jackpot in their love lives and others, like you, continue to struggle?

Well, in this video you will learn that to recognize the source behind your struggles and you’ll also learn how this new “awareness” will better prepare you for having the type of relationship you really desire…and deserve.

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Much Love,


Are You Struggling With Regret?

The other day I was having s session with one of my male clients (yes, I have some of those!) when he asked me about Woman-with-regretsregrets.

You see, he was struggling with regrets, lots of them. He had made a lot of unhealthy choices and ultimately those choices led to the demise of his marriage.

So, as we processed his regrets he turned and asked me. “What about you? You can’t tell me you don’t have any regrets?”

And I looked him straight in the eye and said, “No, I don’t! But I have a ton of mistakes!”.

You see, I’ve done a ton of things that have had disastrous results in my life. I’ve made relationship mistakes, financial mistakes and even parenting mistakes (if you don’t believe me ask my boys). And some of these mistakes have caused me and some of those that I love a ton of pain.

But with each so called “failure” I’ve stepped back and taken some Mirror Time to see how I can turn the mistake into an “expensive learning lesson”..

I learned a long time ago that beating myself up for the mistakes of the past doesn’t’ do me any good and it certainly doesn’t help me go forward on my journey.

But looking at my so called “failures” and seeing them as expensive learning lessons allows me to grow and make better choices and decisions so that I don’t have to look back and play the woulda, coulda, shoulda game.

I believe that we’re all doing the best we can in each moment and even when we make poor choices there’s always a valid reason behind why we’re doing so.

So if you’re doing the best that you can , why bet yourself up? Doesn’t it make more sense to see what you can learn from your mistakes?
So what about you? Do you have any regrets? Is there something that you’re struggling with that you are still beating yourself up with and that you can’t let go of?

What if instead of seeing it as a mistake which you regret you saw it as an expensive learning lesson designed by the Universe to help you grow and be a better you.

Wouldn’t you then be able to live with that regret more easily?

Today, In invite you to take some Mirror Time and look at the regret(s) you’re struggling with. And once you identify it I invite you to share what it is and how you can turn that regret into an expensive learning lesson and how that new perspective will help you as you go forward in your life.

And please make sure you share your thoughts, feelings and questions with us down below in the comments section.

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Why a Guy Won’t Call You His Girlfriend

Have you ever been with a guy and you knew in your heart that he was your boyfriend but you weren’t sure if he felt strong enough to call you his girlfriend?

If, so this video is a must because you will learn that there are only two reasons why a guy is saying the words you desperately want to hear


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Much Love,


The Best Dating & Relationship Advice You Can Get

Do you know what the most common mistake you may be making in your love life is? Listening to others and not listening to your gut.

In this video you will learn a very strategic principle that will help make your dating and relationship life easier…and more enjoyable.

If you’re tired of reading books, searching the internet and watching videos (like this) to help you find love this video is for you

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Hope it helps!

Much Love,


The Worst Dating & Relationship Advice You’ll Get

If you’re like most single women you’re constantly looking for advice to help improve your love life. Unfortunately much of that advice comes from other single people or individuals who are more focused on having you buy their book or program than they are in helping you understand exactly why you’re struggling.

Then there’s your friends and family members who try to make you feel better but who don’t realize that their advice is actually hurting you.

In this video you’ll learn about the worst advice you can get from outsiders and how to recognize that it’s advice you should avoid

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Hope It Helps!

Much Love,


It’s Not Your Job To Fix a Guy

Do you have a habit of attracting guys who you feel you have to fix? Do you invest your heart on guys who are emotionally constipated and who can not give consistently give you the things you need to be happy?

If so, this video is for you!

You will learn a quick strategy which helps you recognize it’s time to walk away and cut your losses.

You’ll also learn the difference between “supporting” a guy and “fixing” him.

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Much Love,


3 Signs a Guy is Committed To Your Growth

If you’re like most members of our GPS for Love Community you want to be able to quickly identify if a guy is the RIGHT guy to invest your heart in.

In this video you will learn one of the most important criteria for choosing a mate and how to recognize the 3 signs he is equipped to be the RIGHT partner to share your life with.

Did one of your relationships fail because it (or you) stopped growing?  Please share your comments, questions and feedback below!

Much Love,


Having A Hard Time Thinking Things Will Get Better?

As I was sitting down to write today blog I looked down on my computer screen and noticed that today was Dec. 8th.

December 8th might not be a significant day Crying woman clutching her head-854201to you but it is the anniversary of the worst day of my life. It was on this day that day my dad lost his battle to cancer. For four years I watched my dad suffer and go though operating after operation, and rounds of radiation
and chemotherapy only to die a painful death.

So why am I sharing this with you? Because there was a time, way back in the past where this day would elicit such emotional pain for me that I would do anything and everything I could to avoid it.

In fact, the pain got so bad a few months after my dad died that I tried to take my own life. I was 15 and the pain of seeing my dad waste away in front of my 15 year old eyes was so bad that I didn’t want to go on because I couldn’t imagine things getting any better.

And it’s ironic that now, many years later I am now grateful for that day.

Now I know you’re thinking. “Joe, How can you be grateful for your dad’s death?”.

And before we go further let me clear things up. I am not grateful for his death. It was the worst thing I have had to experience in my life. My dad was my world, he was everything to me. We did everything together and when he died there was a void the size of the Grand Canyon left in my heart.

I am not grateful for his death but I am grateful for what his death taught me. The reason I am grateful TODAY for his passing is because it caused my life to go into a totally different direction.

A lot of who I am today: the way I think, the choices and decisions I make (and don’t make) and the person I try to be is all a result of the experience of going through my dad’s death.

I know it’s hard to believe (especially if you’re going though a painful time of your own right now), but sometimes your greatest pains happen to you because the Universe is making changes so that we grow and take a different paths in your life.

A good friend of mine, Mastic Kipp, creator of The Daily Love blog, calls these times “Divine Storms”.

But there’s a problem with these Divine Storms. We don’t like em! And the reason we don’t like em is b/c they”re painful.

But once you realize that the turbulence and pain caused by the Divine Storms are divinely created to help you get to a better place or experience in your life it becomes a lot easier to ride them out.

Over the previous three weeks Natalie and I have been through A LOT in our personal lives. In fact, yesterday was one of those days where I was going “WTF..did we do something to piss off the gods?”

But after throwing a pity party for myself I snapped back to reality and realized that we were in the middle of a Divine Storm. I now realize that there’s something going on beneath the surface, the hand of the BIG GUY IN THE SKY is at play. And although I may not understand exactly what is going on now I am extremely confident that the reason(s) will reveal themselves in due time.

So today If you’re reading this and going through some sh*t I want you to ask yourself …”What if this wasn’t happening TO me? What if this is actually happening FOR me and my growth? What could the possible lesson be?

And after you answer that question I invite you to  share what you have learned below in the comments section with the other members of the GPS for Love Community because I guarantee you that there is someone else going through the same stuff and who will be helped by you sharing..

Much Love,

If you know someone who is going through a Divine Storm of their own and who may benefit for today”s blog do them a  favor and forward this to them. It may be the ray of sunshine they need.
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