Are You Meant To Be Single?

Are you beginning to believe that finding the love of your life just isn’t in the cards for you? That for some strange reason the forces of The Universe are stacked against you and you are destined to spend the rest of your life alone or going from one dead end relationship to another?

If so, you MUST watch this video because you will learn that there are two main reasons why you continue to struggle in your love life and none of them have to do with an omnipotent being who doesn’t want to see you happy.

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What do you think? Do you believe that some people are just meant to be single? Or do you think there are other reasons why some individuals find love and others struggle in their love lives?

Please share your comments, feedback and questions below

Hope this helps,

Much Love,


What To Do When A Guy Says He’s Not Ready or Can’t Commit

Ever invested your time and energy on a guy who said he wasn’t ready for a relationship or commitment? Did part of you believe that if he just got to know you and experience the love that you had in your heart that he would change his mind and give you the commitment you were looking for?

If so, this video is for you because hoping a guy will change his mind is like running across a highway without looking for oncoming traffic.

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Have you ever been involved with a guy who told you he wasn’t ready (or looking) to commit? If so, I invite you to share what you learned from that experience down below in the comments section.


Hope this helps!

Much Love,


Is FWB a Good Idea?

Is having a friend with benefits a good idea? This is a very controversial topic and in this video you will learn why FWB is not a smart move, even when it’s been awhile since you’ve had sex with a guy

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What are your thoughts? Do you believe in FWB?  Have you ever been involved in a FWB relationship? If so, how did it work for you?

Please share your comments, questions and feedback below.

Much Love,


The Secret To A Successful Marriage

Have you ever wondered why some marriages fail and others stand the test of time? Why is it that some couples can overcome any adversity that life throws at them while other couples have their marriages fall apart when they hit the smallest speed bump in life.

In this video you will learn the 3 things that every successful marriage has. If you want a marriage that is going to ROCK (in and out of the bedroom) you MUST watch this.

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How Long Should You Date Before Pulling the Plug?

Have you ever dated a guy when your heart was torn? There was a part of you that thought you should cut your losses and walk away but there was also a part of you that was afraid of making a big mistake?

If so this video is a no brainer because you will learn when pulling the plug quickly is not only a smart thing but the BEST thing you can do.

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Hope this helps!

Much Love,


Stop Looking For Love and Start Looking For This Instead….

Sometimes I want to just pull my hair out (if I had any!). Want to know why? Because when it comes to finding a happy and fulfilling relationship we make things so much more complicated than theyno love need to be.

We say we want someone special to share our life with yet we date a**holes who make us miserable. We say we want to live happily ever after yet we get involved w/people who don’t consistently give us the things we need to be happy.

And we stay with them because we think if we just love them some more they’ll change and we’ll get the love we really want.

And when we know we’re not getting the love we want we come up with all types of BS excuses and labels to justify why it’s so hard.

And the reason it’s hard is because you’re looking for LOVE when you should be looking for a GREAT relationship.

You know if it was up to me I’d remove the word LOVE from the dictionary.


Because I believe this one word is the cause of most of the problems your’re experiencing in your relationship life.

I get it. For years I searched for “love” and there was even a time when I thought I found it. We both did. We both thought we “loved” each other. In fact, we were so convinced that it was LOVE that we planned on spending the rest of our lives together.

The only problem was that we were both miserable!

Isn’t love supposed to make you feel good consistently? If that is true why were we both so unhappy?

Love, true love, not the Toilet Bowl kind, is supposed to to make you feel good…CONSISTENTLY (not just in the first few months). It is supposed to warm your heart…CONSISTENTLY.  And it’s supposed to give you a feeling deep in your soul that your partner is the best thing that has ever happened to you….CONSISTENTLY

And anything that doesn’t allow you to experience these things on a consistent basis is not love.

It’s a bunch of other things that you’re unknowingly confusing as love. It’s infatuation, chemistry, co-dependency, neediness, or something which temporarily covers up your low self esteem or fear of being alone. But it is not love, not the love you’re really looking for.

After calling off my engagement I did a lot of soul searching. I took a good look in the mirror and asked myself if what we really had was “LOVE.” And when I got honest, real honest, I realized that it wasn’t love for either of us.

And I think that’s why we both came to our senses and called off the wedding.

So, after an expensive learning lesson I made myself a promise. Instead of looking for love I was going to look for a GREAT relationship. The kind of relationship I really wanted.

And that simple switch in philosophy changed everything for me.

By focusing on creating a GREAT relationship I was able to find the soul mate I had been searching for. I was able to find the person who consistently gave me the things I needed to be happy… CONSISTENTLY (in and out of the bedroom).

And the really cool part was that by focusing on the great relationship I was able to find the “LOVE” my heart had been looking for.

Hope this helps!

Did today’s blog resonate with you? Do you have any questions, comments or feedback on the difference between LOVE and a GREAT relationship? If so I invite you to share your thoughts and feelings with us below.

The GPS for Love community is s safe place to engage and interact with those individuals who are on a similar journey.

Much Love,

P.S. Having a hard time differentiating between love and a great relationship. Tired of struggling and trying to figure things out on your own? Want to learn how to create a GREAT relationship (in and out of the bedroom) that will stand the test of time? If so, I invite you to check out the GPS for Love One-on-One mentoring program. I’d love to show you how to make it happen. Click here for more info.

3 Signs You’re A Love Addict

Do you tend to jump into relationships before you even know a guy? Do you tend to stay in relationships when you’re unhappy because you’re afraid of being alone and having to start over?

Or do you feel that you aren’t complete unless you have a boyfriend or husband to share your life with?

If so, you MUST watch this video because you will learn the 3 signs which indicate you’re a love addict who is going about getting your fix in a way that makes it harder to have the relationship you’re really looking for

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And don’t forget to post your comments, questions and feedback below. The GPS for Love community is a safe place for you to share your thoughts and feelings.

Much Love,



If you’re a struggling love addict who is having trouble understanding and breaking your addiction I invite you to check out the GPS for Love One-On-One Mentoring Program. I’d love to help you!

Is Your Past Haunting You?

Have you had your heart broken? Have you given your all to a guy only to have him betray you? Is the pain of the past so strong that you are having a hard time opening up to love again?

Or has your self worth and self esteem taken such a hit that you are finding it impossible to find the type of relationship you really want.

If you answered “YES” to any of these questions you MUST watch this video because you will learn to how go deep and identify the real cause of your struggles.

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Hope this helps!

Much Love,


Shake It Off – A Lesson in Love From Taylor Swift

You know what’s cool about life? That there’s a Universal Force that’s ALWAYS guiding you and trying to help you in our journey. And no matter frustrated, confused, stressed or depressed you may get that FORCE is always there shake it offand if you can just re-member this and keep your eyes and ears open it is much easier to tune into this GPS system.

Just like today. I was dropping the boys off at school when I turned on the radio and heard Taylor Swift’s new song. It’s called “Shake it Off”

Now I’m a music nut. I love all types of music. I’ve been to over 250 concerts in my life and I’ve got the most diverse taste of anyone I know. In fact many of my friends make fun of me because I can go from listening to Madonna to Motley Crue

The problem is I’m not big on of listening to the actual lyrics. To me it’s all about the beat and vibe of s song. So I could literally listen to a song for years and not know what it is about.

But today when I was driving I actually listened to the words of Shake It Off, a new song by Taylor Swift, I knew it was the Universe’s way of helping me come up with the topic for today’s blog.

The players gonna play,

And the haters gonna hate,

I shake it off, I shake it off

Heartbreakers are gonna break

And the fakers gonna fake,

I’m just gonna shake it off,

But I keep cruising

Can’t stop, won’t stop grooving

It’s like I got this music in my mind

Saying, “It’s gonna be alright.”

The second I understood what the song was about I knew I had to share it with you. Because this song is about understanding there are “boys” out there and they’re gonna pull they’re sh*t but these buttholes don’t define you and they don’t don’t dictate your

ability to find love …unless you let them.

Swift’s song is about understanding that eh “boys” can only affect you if you let them. This is what I mean when I say you have the POWER.

You have the ability to decide how you are going to react. You have the ability to say that you will not tolerate any crap from a “boy” and you have the POWER.

And I promise you that if you learn to shake it off and reclaim your POWER this whole relationship journey will be much easier… and much more enjoyable.

If you’re reading this it’s probably because you have a hard time shaking things off in your love life.

Maybe you’re in a relationship where you know you’re not getting ALL of your needs met but you’re afraid to walk away and start over again. Maybe you’re so hungry for love that you’ll take any guy who comes along and tells you what you want to hear. Or maybe your

heart is hurting and you’re having a hard time opening up because you’re afraid of getting hurt again

Or maybe you’re having a hard time finding love because you didn’t have role mode4ls to show you what a healthy relationship was.

And if that’s the case I’m sorry. I wish I could give you a magic wand to help you shake off the past. But let me say this…Your past does not define your future…unless you let it!

The time has come to step up, shake it off and reclaim your POWER so that you can create the relationship you desire..and deserve!

Today I invite you to take some Mirror Time to see what you’ve been holding on to which does not serve you? What beliefs do you have which are working against you? What fears do you have which cause you to make poor choices in your love life. What decisions do you make (or don’t make) which tend to lead to more frustration, pain and heartache?

And once you realize what you need to shake off head on over to today’s blog and share with us.

The GPS for Love community to share and receive the guidance and assistance you need to create the relationship you want

Hope this helps!

Much Love,



Know someone who is having a hard time letting go and shaking things off? Do me a favor and forward this to them. It might be the thing they need to get them out of their funk.

5 Steps for Emotional Healing

Are you having a hard time getting over a broken heart? Is the pain of the past so raw that you’re finding it difficult to let go and move on?

If so, this video is for you!

You will learn the 5 practical steps you can take get over your pain so that you can move on.

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Much Love,