You know what’s cool about life? That there’s a Universal Force that’s ALWAYS guiding you and trying to help you in our journey. And no matter frustrated, confused, stressed or depressed you may get that FORCE is always there and if you can just re-member this and keep your eyes and ears open it is much easier to tune into this GPS system.
Just like today. I was dropping the boys off at school when I turned on the radio and heard Taylor Swift’s new song. It’s called “Shake it Off”
Now I’m a music nut. I love all types of music. I’ve been to over 250 concerts in my life and I’ve got the most diverse taste of anyone I know. In fact many of my friends make fun of me because I can go from listening to Madonna to Motley Crue
The problem is I’m not big on of listening to the actual lyrics. To me it’s all about the beat and vibe of s song. So I could literally listen to a song for years and not know what it is about.
But today when I was driving I actually listened to the words of Shake It Off, a new song by Taylor Swift, I knew it was the Universe’s way of helping me come up with the topic for today’s blog.
The players gonna play,
And the haters gonna hate,
I shake it off, I shake it off
Heartbreakers are gonna break
And the fakers gonna fake,
I’m just gonna shake it off,
But I keep cruising
Can’t stop, won’t stop grooving
It’s like I got this music in my mind
Saying, “It’s gonna be alright.”
The second I understood what the song was about I knew I had to share it with you. Because this song is about understanding there are “boys” out there and they’re gonna pull they’re sh*t but these buttholes don’t define you and they don’t don’t dictate your
ability to find love …unless you let them.
Swift’s song is about understanding that eh “boys” can only affect you if you let them. This is what I mean when I say you have the POWER.
You have the ability to decide how you are going to react. You have the ability to say that you will not tolerate any crap from a “boy” and you have the POWER.
And I promise you that if you learn to shake it off and reclaim your POWER this whole relationship journey will be much easier… and much more enjoyable.
If you’re reading this it’s probably because you have a hard time shaking things off in your love life.
Maybe you’re in a relationship where you know you’re not getting ALL of your needs met but you’re afraid to walk away and start over again. Maybe you’re so hungry for love that you’ll take any guy who comes along and tells you what you want to hear. Or maybe your
heart is hurting and you’re having a hard time opening up because you’re afraid of getting hurt again
Or maybe you’re having a hard time finding love because you didn’t have role mode4ls to show you what a healthy relationship was.
And if that’s the case I’m sorry. I wish I could give you a magic wand to help you shake off the past. But let me say this…Your past does not define your future…unless you let it!
The time has come to step up, shake it off and reclaim your POWER so that you can create the relationship you desire..and deserve!
Today I invite you to take some Mirror Time to see what you’ve been holding on to which does not serve you? What beliefs do you have which are working against you? What fears do you have which cause you to make poor choices in your love life. What decisions do you make (or don’t make) which tend to lead to more frustration, pain and heartache?
And once you realize what you need to shake off head on over to today’s blog and share with us.
The GPS for Love community to share and receive the guidance and assistance you need to create the relationship you want
Hope this helps!
Know someone who is having a hard time letting go and shaking things off? Do me a favor and forward this to them. It might be the thing they need to get them out of their funk.