How To Find A Quality Man

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Are you having trouble finding quality guys to date? Are you tired of the types of guys who constantly frustrate, annoy & let you down?

Would you like to learn a simple strategy which would make it easier for you to find the type of guy you are looking for?

In today’s video you’re going to understand that the reason you may be struggling in your love life has more to do with what’s between your ears than it does with the number of quality guys out there.

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Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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How To Tell If You Have Too Much Baggage

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If it was up to me I would take some words out of the human vocabulary. Words such as LOVE….Selfishness….Addiction…and….BAGGAGE!

Why?

Because I believe there is a lot of misperception and misunderstanding around these words and I believe not understanding what these things really are and how they apply to our lives often makes our journey more confusing and complicated than it needs to be.

Today I want to address the word the term “BAGGAGE”. What it is and how it may be affecting you and your life.

You see, we all have baggage. And it’s not necessarily a bad thing because our baggage is how we learn and how we grow.

The problem occurs when we ignore or don’t deal with our baggage

Because ignoring or not dealing with your baggage will often make it harder for a guy to love you and commit to you

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After watching today’s vblog I invite you to take some Mirror Time to see how your baggage may be working against you in your love life.

Remember the purpose of these videos is not to make you wrong or feel like crap but to shine light on those things which may be preventing you from having the relationship that you say you want

Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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The #1 Reason Why Most Single Women Are Unhappy

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if you’re like most of the members of our GPS for Love community you’re tired of getting your hopes up and being let down in your love life? You’re tired of guys who say one thing and do another, right?

Well, what if there was a simple strategy that could help you eliminate 95% of the frustration and disappointment you have to go thru in dating and relationships?

What if there was a simpler, easier way to cut thru all of the B.S. that you have to deal with in your love life?

In today’s vblog you’ll learn how the #1 thing which is causing you pain in your love life and you’ll alos learn how a simple strategy to remove this obstacle form your life so that your love life becomes easier and more enjoyable.

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I invite you to watch til the very end because there is a Mirror Time exercise which is designed to help you get the most from today’s vblog.

Enjoy!

Much Love,

Joe

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How To Call A Guy on His Stuff Without Being a B*tch

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Have you ever heard the expression…It’s not what you say, but how you say it?

well, in today’s video you’re going to learn that there is a right way and a wrong way to call a guy on i stuff when he screws up.

Do it the right way and you’ll get a MAN to accept responsibility for this actions and get him to want to clean it up and make you happy.

But do it wrong and you’ll paint him into a corner, which will cause him to do two things, neither of which will make things better.

To find out what those things are and to learn how to hold a guy accountable without being perceived as a bitch watch this video NOW!

After watching today’s video I invite you to take some Mirror Time and look at what your pattern is for holding men accountable. Do you tend to avoid it because you’re afraid a guy will get pissed off and leave you or do you have no problem sticking a guy’s nose in his sh*t and telling him how much he sucks when he screws up?

How is today’s vblog going to help you as you go forward in your love life? Make sure to scroll down and share your insights, questions and feedback.

Much Love,

Joe

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The Difference Between a Woman Who is Too Nice and A Woman Who Is A Human Doormat

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There is this myth out there that you can be “too nice”and I just don’t buy it.

There was a time in my life where several of my female friends told me that I was too nice and that some women didn’t like guys who were predictable, reliable and who didn’t play games.

At first it confused me. Why would anyone not want to be with someone who had those qualities?  But what I ultimately learned is that anyone who didn’t want to be with me because I was too nice simply wasn’t the right partner for me.

In today’s vblog you will learn that there is a BIG difference between being too nice and being a human doormat.

If you have been told you’re too nice and you have a habit of attracting guys who tend to take advantage of your BIG heart you MUST watch this video.

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Hope this helps!

Much Love,

Joe

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Why Women Aren’t Attracted to Nice Guys

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When I was in college, several of my female friends told me that I was too nice. And I must admit I was a bit shocked (and a lil pissed!).

It didn’t make sense to my logical mind. But as I got older and continued to date it became glaringly obvious as to why some women were turned off by nice guys.

Deep down I believe every human being wants someone who will love, honor and respect them. But unfortunately for many women (and men) there are things going on under neath the surface that causes them to not be attracted to partners who are nice.

I know it might not make sense…but when it comes to human behavior, especially in the romance department, logic goes out the window.

In today’s video you’ll learn the two reasons why some women are not attracted to nice guys, even when they complain that the guys they are attracted to treat them like sh*t!

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DO you have a habit of being attracted to the wrong guys? Do nice guys turn you off? if so, why? And how do you know when a guy is being “too nice” and when he is hitting the right marks on the nice-o-meter.

Post your comments, questions and feedback below. I’d love to hear your thoughts and experience on this topic

Much Love,

Joe

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Afraid Your Dreams Won’t Come True?

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I was recently talking with my friend Carey who is my accountability partner. I met Carey in a Mastermind group we were both in and for the last year Carey & I meet every Friday to support each DReam Bigother.

Like me Carey is someone who has a mission to make a big difference in the world.

I love connecting with people like Carey because we get to dream big.

You see the problem with dreaming big is that a lot of people, including your family members, are afraid of dreaming BIG and because they’re afraid of dreaming BIG they’ll try out talk you out of dreaming BIG.

And to justify it to themselves, they’ll say things like they’re just looking out for you, or they’re just trying to be realistic or they don’t want to see you get hurt.

And sometimes it’s really true. Sometimes your friends and family members can see things a lil more clearly than you because they’re not as emotionally involved as you.

But sometimes it’s not.

Sometimes, the reason they throw water on your dreaming BIG is because they’re afraid of dreaming big and going for the GOLD.

WHY?

Because the thought of dreaming BIG, and going for it and potentially failing scares the crap out of them.

So to justify it to themselves, you and the Universe they’ll try to prevent you from achieving your BIG dream(s).

In Australia there is an actual name for this type of behavior, it’s called the “TALL POPPY SYNDROME.”

Whenever someone tries to grow and accomplish great things there are people around them try to cut them down so that they won’t be bigger/better than them.

And the reason people do this is because if the other person succeeds and accomplishes their dream it only magnifies the small and crappy results they have in their own lives.

I believe that you can accomplish ANYTHING you want in your life, including an awesome relationship with a guy who loves and adores you for the amazing woman you are.

But in order to do that you must be careful who you listen to, you must be cognizant of who you surround yourself with .

It is imperative that you guard your dreams closely. You must only share them with those individuals think and believe the way you do.

Sadly, sometimes it’s not your friends and family members. Not because they don’t love you and want the best for you. But because they’re too afraid to dream big.

So today I invite you to take some Mirror Time. I encourage you to do a mental inventory and ask yourself some of the following questions…”

Do I have a BIG dream and do I believe it’s possible?

Do I have people in my life who love me and encourage me in achieving my BIG dream?

Am I really going for that dream or am I making excuses as to why I can’t have it or why it’s not possible for me?

The answers to these questions are critical and are a great indicator to how close (or far away) you may be from accomplishing your BIG dream, especially that long lasting, fulfilling relationship.

I don’t believe in a Universe that hand picks whose BIG dreams come true and whose doesn’t.

I believe in a friendly and supportive Universe that is there to love, support and guide you along the way until you accomplish your BIG dream.

But the Universe can only do it’s part. You have to be willing to do yours, even if that’s telling the people who sh*t on your dreams to mind their business and keep their mouths shut!

Does today’s blog resonate with you? Have you given up on your BIG dream? Are there people around you who don’t support you or who make you think you’re crazy for dreaming big?

If so, I invite you to scroll down and share your comments, questions and feedback because the GPS for Love community is here to support you and your BIG dreams until you achieve them!

Hope this helps!

Much Love,
Joe

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Are Relationships Too Much Work?

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Do you believe relationships are a lot of work?

I don’t. But there was a time in my life I did!

And because I believed they were hard work I stayed in a relationship for two years longer than I should have.

I thought being a man was to stay committed to a woman after you asked her to marry you…no matter what!

It didn’t make a difference that I was miserable and none of my core needs weren’t’ being met.

There is this myth out there that relationships are a lot of work. and because most of us believe this myth we continue to invest our time on relationships that are not the type of relationship we really want.

While that may be that some relationships are a lot of work. I have come to learn that they don’t have to be.

In this video you will learn that there are two types of relationships and that if you pick the right relationship for the right reasons you’ll never have to work hard to make another realtionship work.

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Hope this helps!

Much Love,
Joe

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How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested In A LTR With You

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One of the most difficult parts of finding a love that will last is figuring out if a guy is really interested in having in having a long term relationship with you and only you.

In this video you will learn to identify the three signs which will help you recognize you have found a guy that’s worth investing your heart in.

By knowing what these three signs are you’ll be better prepared to recognize if the guy you’re interested in is worth investing in or he’s a guy you should walk away from

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After watching today’s video I invite you to take some Mirror Time and see which of the three signs were missing in your previous relationship(S). And then look at how knowing these 3 signs will help you as you go forward in your love life.

Make sure to scroll down and let me know how today’s vblog is helpful to you.  I also invite you to post any questions, comments and feedback.

I’m 100% committed to helping you find the love you desire…and deserve!

Have a blessed day!

Much Love,

Joe

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How To Handle Adversity

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Hi,

Happy Friday.

And when I say Happy Friday I mean it because this has been one tough week in Amoia-ville. I’m so glad this week is coming to an end!adversity

In order to save some time I won’t go into the details but I’ll some it up by saying this week I have felt like a human pinata.

I’m not going to lie…it sucks…BIG TIME!

But the one thing I’ve learned in my life is that when the Universe throws sh*t at you, there’s a reason…there’s always a reason!

You see, adversity is a part of life.

When you ask for strength , the Universe doesn’t give you strong muscles. It gives you the opportunities and experiences to become stronger.

If I was to go through a week like this 10 years ago, it probably would have put me in a very bad emotional space, maybe even a depression.

But I’ve been through enough of these Divine Storms to know that the Universe isn’ty doing this “to me” it’s doing it “for me”

If you’re going to date more than one guy in your life and you’re going to be in more than one relationship you are going to have adversity…that’s just the way it is.

But how you handle the adversity and the way you meet the Divine Storms of life ultiamtely determines how quickly they pass.

So, what do I do when life throws knocks me down. Three things:

I pray – praying reminds me that there is a higher power that has my back and is there to support and guide me during the troubled time

I Journal – journaling helps me process my emotions and feelings in a healthy way so that I can understand the truth of what’s going on and what I have to learn from the adversity

I Connect With Others – Fortunately I have an amazing wife that I can go to when I struggling with some adversity but sometimes I need to connect with someone else. Someone who isn’t so close to me emotionally and who can see things more objectively.

Having someone to go to who will be there to love and support you (and give you the loving kick in the a** when needed) is an essential step in getting through the crap that life throws at you, especially in your love life.

I know what it’s like to feel like everything is against you. I know what it’s like to feel like your heart’s desire is so far away and so attainable. I know what’s like to be hit so hard that it’s hard to get back up and I know what it’s like to be thisclose to going “F*ck it, I give up!”

But I want you to know that no matter how bad things may seem, no matter how much pain, confusion or overwhelm you may be experiencing, things can always get better.

I know that sounds cliche, but it’s the truth. But how quickly they get better is determined by how you face and handle the adversity.

The sun always comes out after the rain…it’s just a matter of when!

SO when adversity hits, especially in your love life, what do you do? What are the things you do to help you meet that adversity head on and kick it’s a**?

Scroll down to the comments section and share your tips with us. We’d love to hear from you. And if you have any otehr questions about the adversity you may be struggling with, make sure to post them as well. The GPS for Love community is here for you!

Hope this helps!

Have a blessed day!

Much Love,
Joe

 

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